Girls: Bi Guys

I wouldn't care if a guy I was seeing was attracted to other guys. I'm attracted to other girls so there is no difference.

 

I just don't see what the big deal is. When someone has chosen to be in a relationship with me, I know they want me regardless of what genders attract them. I've heard lots of people (men and women) say they won't date bi people because it's twice the amount of people to cheat with, but that seems like a whole other issue to me. The issue of dating a cheater, not of dating a bi person.

I love that when a hot person of any gender walks by, my boyfriend and I can both admire them and be open about it!

 

It would/will be nice having a relationship like that.

 

I would hate that. I've had that in a relationship and personally I find it extremely disrespectful and hurtful. Perhaps it is because I feel this way myself that I have never had the urge to do it in front of my significant other, and I honestly don't understand this need to be so "open" about it. The last guy I dated was constantly flirting in front of me and telling me who he thought looked good. He did admit to me early on that he was bisexual, and in the end also admitted to me that he was bored with me and wanted other people, so my instincts were correct in that case. This is, like Mattekat said, a whole other issue, though. I would certainly not go so far as to say I would never again date another bisexual man, but I would hope we were more compatible in terms of sexuality and how blatantly we ogle the opposite sex in front of each other. Compatibility and respect are much bigger issues than whether or not he likes things in his butt in my opinion.