GIRLS: 5 things you look for in a guy and 5 to avoid

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by bugsangel, Apr 10, 2005.

  1. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    why do you assume so?
     
  2. Amanda's Shadow

    Amanda's Shadow Flower Child

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    ok... then ill rephrase it that i have not met any.
     
  3. Amanda's Shadow

    Amanda's Shadow Flower Child

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    haha i hope i do *crosses fingers*
     
  4. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    drunks are the best.
     
  5. innocentpoison333

    innocentpoison333 Member

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    Good:
    Eyes
    Lips
    Neck
    Senscetive (Not afraid to cry)
    Sence of Humor

    Bad:
    Ignorance
    Cockiness
    Too built
    Tan
    Liar
     
  6. bugsangel

    bugsangel Member

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    im just a messy person and i dont like to be spotless...im really simple and i like my husband to be too...its just the way i am...im not saying anythings wrong with you but i just dont like it




     
  7. Cougar

    Cougar Member

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    Looking for 6:
    Smart/Creative
    Willingness to do nothing/anything
    Sensual
    Vegan
    Understands my tattoo
    Has a good sense of humor; not just funny, but can also laugh at self and undesirable situations; someone who can enjoy life despite the superficial ups and downs.

    Avoid 6:
    Judgemental
    Cynical/Bitter
    Violent
    Posessive/Controlling
    Asks me about my past
    Smokes ice

    I did six each. I'm an over-acheiver when it comes to relationships. That could explain why I've been single for nearly ten months.
     
  8. Small_Brown

    Small_Brown Senior Member

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    Aww, guess I'm out. :(

    As for Mui: I would rather be single that date a woman who only wants my $$.
     
  9. humandraydel

    humandraydel Member

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    Sooo, crackheads are ok? :eek: j/k
     
  10. FrozenMoonbeam

    FrozenMoonbeam nerd

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    hmm, top five
    I want to find someone who has/is
    a sense of compassion, towards people and animals
    a sense of humour, HAS to be able to see the funny side of life
    intelligence
    affectionate
    aaand, someone who will occasionally act like a kid again - who will come play in the big puddles and have tickle fights. :)

    the five icks
    arrogance
    beady eyes
    bigotry/close mindedness
    negativity
    guys that promise the you world, only to continually let you down.
     
  11. culture_revolution

    culture_revolution Member

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    umm

    good:
    morals
    intelligence
    music
    humor, sense of
    honesty

    bad:
    liars
    murders (of any animal)
    bad music taste
    stupid
    selfish
     
  12. MorrisonHotel410

    MorrisonHotel410 Member

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    Desired: (in no order)

    1) Intelligence
    It is always a must for me to be with a man who can carry a good conversation, without rambling or saying useless things.

    2) Sense of Humor
    A man with no humor may as well be dead. At times, one must be serious- but life is so much nicer and more enjoyable with laughter involved.

    3) Appreciation of Art + Music
    Self explanatory eh? lol

    4)Shy/Mysterious
    It may sound odd- but I like it when a guy is not an open book. Learning to know somebody over a period of time is better than hearing his life story in a matter of minutes. Then, things usually do not get so boring and predictable.

    5) Sense of Adventure
    Anybody willing to take risks and try anything just for fun is a major plus. That shows a lot about one's character too.

    Avoid (in no order)

    1) Arrogance/Conceited
    Men that are too difficult and usually on power trips.

    2) Cheaters, Liars
    A relationship or friendship cannot work if trust and loyalty are not present.

    3) Fast
    I HATE it when guys get touchy feely really quick. I'm an old romantic- I love sex and everything, but only when extremely close to that person. If a person is too easy, then they are not worth it.

    4) Not Opinionated
    Guys that always agree with me are quite annoying. It is always interesting to get into a debate or talk about differences..it allows you to think another way- even if you do not agree.

    5) Superficial and People Pleasers
    It's nice to make others happy- but to be a conformist? Ehh..no fun. Individuality is extremely important. Being a people pleaser- at all costs can make you act differently just to make another person happy. It is okay to do so once in a while, but on a constant basis is ridiculous. It would be like a split personality.

     
  13. Oh So strangE indeeD

    Oh So strangE indeeD Member

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    5 things i look for:
    -a great smile/sense of humor
    -good dancer (i like to dance...hes gotta be able to move his hips at least somewhat decently)
    -intelligence
    -good cooks are up there (i can barely boil water)
    -eyes

    avoid:
    -arrogance
    -players..you date me..you only date me...I'm enough to handle
    -jerks in general
    -people my friend morgan doesnt like. if I'm into a guy, i can't always tell if hes a definite jerk or not...shes an excellent judge of character.
    -violent people...like i dont mind someone who plays violent sports..but street violence is not cool
     
  14. "†"»AMBER«

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    Good:)
    1. Trustworthy
    2. Nice eyes
    3. a guy whos not afarid to be himself
    4. he knows love
    5. A Christain Guy
    6. He must love music as well!!
    Bad
    1. Hateful
    2. Really Really tall guys are scary.
    3. Self centered
    4. non christain
    5. guys who dont want to do anything with there life.
     
  15. broken_dreamer

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    good
    1.honesty
    2.compassion
    3,brains
    4.humerous
    5.eyes i could fall into

    bad.
    1.grabby
    2.liar
    3.player
    4.controllling
    5.ingnorant
     
  16. Rapunzel

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  17. We_All_Shine_On

    We_All_Shine_On Senior Member

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    Good:
    Female lol

    no but for a guy, he needs to be AT EASE!!! none of this nervous crap, but he MUST remember his manners.
     
  18. FreeBird1969

    FreeBird1969 Fleas on their paws.

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    Avoid

    1. Spends more time getting ready for a date than I do.
    2. Refers to me as "his."
    3. Doesn't feel comfortable talking to me.
    4. Has a criminal record.
    5. Expects me to cook. (Doesn't mean I won't; it's just a pet peeve of mine.)

    Look For

    1. Spends no time getting ready, but doesn't mind waiting.
    2. Refers to himself as "mine." :)
    3. Feels comfortable talking with me.
    4. Doesn't have a criminal record...
    5. Will cook for me. :)
     
  19. Pygot

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    what i want from my guy.
    1. love
    2. kisses and hugs
    3. caring
    4. funny
    5. intelligent
    all of these things he is!!!thank god! i luv him so much

    things i dont want
    1. ignorant
    2. mean
    3. hurting my feelings continous
    4. doing bad things to himself like smoking
    5. hittin me
     

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