Girlfriend/wife not wanting sex scenario?

A question for the ladies: Let's say you are bed with your boyfriend or husband etc and he wants to have sex and you are not in the mood, would you feel offended if he told you he was either A) Going to masturbate in the bed next to you or B) He was going to go and watch porn on the computer and masturbate?

 

Seems like a question on every guy's mind - besides the obvious - whether she's in the mood or not, why won't she just do it just for you ? It only takes a few minutes for a quickie good night blowjob. It's like if she ever asked you to do her - or anything - could you say no? Of course not.

 

Reverse the thought. I'm not in the mood and she asks or begins to be intimate. I'm just not into it so I tell her I want to go to sleep. She might beg a little but I lay firm as I am unable due to (fill in the blank). I would opt for answer B and have her go masturbate in the other room. Let me rest up and in the morning I will fuck her to her satisfaction. I've done this scenario many times before.

 

My last wife developed a growing portfolio of "reasonable sounding reasons". She's no longer my wife. This is my scenario.

In a recent conversation she confided she was doing the same thing now with her boyfriend that she previously did to me, to which I responded:
"Oh....you mean you're defrauding him?" <protracted silence> and she replied: "Well, I guess you could say that".

I asked her if she knew anyone who ever moved in, shacked up, or got married just to practice celibacy and there was a looooooong silence. So much so that I wondered if she'd tossed the phone out in the yard or shut it off. She finally replied: "I guess I never thought of it like that." and I told her that she was going to keep destroying her relationships if she keeps doing that. After all, we're men; not women. We don't need you to practice celibacy, and you don't need us for that. If you want to keep enjoying the benefits of a man being around, you're gonna' have to stop this habit you have of denying sex. Consider it the ongoing cost of a man in your life. Or live alone. You pick. I stopped caring long ago, and gave her plenty of warning of what's to come before I filed for divorce. Her problem now.

I really believe that women don't lose their interest in sex. They just lose their interest in their current partner. To be simple, they get bored. As soon as you're gone they'll be out on the prowl and land in some other guy's bed with her legs in a deathgrip around his rear end, bucking and thrusting like a wild animal. All because she's bored.

I might be a wee bit cynical these days.

 

She wanted some last night. I was too tired so I told her to just have fun and she did. She tells me the samething. But ends up giving in anyway.

 

And this is why my "new" (4 years) wife is so friggin awesome.
My first wife that I was married to for 27 too damn long years... in the last 15 years sex kept dwindling and dwindling and eventually to none. Zip.
Annd... she wanted nothing to do with masturbation.
Enter my wife now, yes there are times when she really doesn't want to have sex, but does it anyway. And there are times she doesn't want to...and says she isn't into it. But here is the awesome part... I can masturbate right next to her and she will face me and lie next to me till I am finished. If all wives would do that... I swear there would be half the divorces there are now.

 

Seems this ten minutes could solve many of the world's problems.

 

God help this generation with all of the "woke" females who see their ability to have complete control of sex as a human right.
No recognition of male differences, in fact look at it as a major aspect of "toxic masculinity". When in fact the attitude of those females is the toxin.

 

When did we lose the upper hand?

 

When you said "I Do!"

 

"I do" should be renamed to "I'm done".....

 

My wife says she will jack me off when she is not in the mood. She wants to keep me here. She knows men very well, she was a call girl in Vegas. All her rich Johns were married.

 

My wife does that as well. My girlfriend before just used to say I can do her anyway if I wanted haha

 

Think u should get muscles. Then she will probably always be in the mood. Or u can just have a "computer room" for jackin

 

NO, if you feel you need to add something to your body or your personality then you have the wrong partner. Reread the above picture I posted.

 

That is true