Girlfriend says prefers ex's dick

I am around 7 inches long and good girth. My girlfriend has told me about 2 guys in her past and has admitted that she prefers their dick over mine. One at around 8 inches and the other probably around 9 inches. She has told me that my dick will probably never make her pussy feel as good as theirs have because I just cant reach those spots that they could. And the shitty part is I have to occasionally see the guy with the dick that is around 9 because he works for her dad. It has made me feel like shit and my confidence has gone out the window. I don't enjoy sex as much anymore because I feel like I'm only trying to compete now and make it feel as good as I can. She told me that on a scale of 1 - 10 mine is a 7 overall but for a one night stand it would probably be a 6. 5 being neutral. The guy that is around 9 inches is an 8 overall and a 9 or 10 for a one night stand. What should I do. I'm struggling to get through this.

 

Get a new girlfriend

 

She’s a virus

 

Agreed, get a new girl. My current bf isn’t anywhere near a pervious ex, and I wouldn’t dare say anything because I love him and size isn’t everything. The fact that she said that flat out is inconsiderate and selfish of her. Sounds like she has no regards for you or your feelings.

 

I think she has a bad case of cock goggles. Read the studies on cock size and just what percentage of guys are 7, let alone 9 inches - and no vagina is 9 inches deep - those spots that he supposedly hit don't exist. Time for a new girlfriend that won't belittle you.

 

Just let her know that if she wasn’t so stretched out from shoving oversized toys up her gaping hole that an average size dick would be more than enough for her. It’s not her ex-boyfriend’s that did it to her, it’s the small Volkswagen she’s been parking up her box

 

I was trying to find something on the internet about how to handle the situation or at least something to dispute the need to feel insecure but I couldn't find anything. I see plenty of posts where men are afraid their sig other had a bigger dick or that perhaps they preferred the bigger dick but couldn't find anything where the woman actually straight up told the man that to his face.

 

Well, she is with you and not him, right? So you have something on him. I think she is just playing mind games with you. You can do better. No woman that truly cares about you belittles you, and above all certainly not about your cock. Tell to cut the shit, or she can go back to the neanderthal if he'd still have her.

 

Any girl / woman who's into playing head games, or has no regard for your feelings needs the "eject" button pushed on her. We men are NOT gameboards to be used for entertainment, especially when so many women complain that men aren't "honest, nice, good guys." If I were in your shoes, she'd be out the door. Not worth the thought.

I had a head-gamer happen to me some years ago. I hit "EJECT." Never looked back.

 

Let us all keep in mind that this post is from a “new member“ and may very well be a bullshit post looking for reactions.

The exact same comment, word for word, is posted on two different forums here on HF.

 

This is a very real post. And honestly it's my fiance not my girlfriend and we are getting married in August. I confronted her about it last night because she felt like she was doing the right thing by being honest and telling me, so I said see what people online think about telling you man this. After researching a few sites and watching a couple videos of people discussing "similar" topics she apologized and agreed she shouldn't have told me the truth. But in the end it's too late, I already know now. I love the girl and I do want to marry her but I have a hard time shaking it off especially when we get intimate.

And could you please show me where these posts are that are a word for word what I have asked. Thanks

 

I don't know your age but if you marry this girl it won't last. Any reasonably mature female would not tell her future spouse any such manipulative tool like this. If she knew you could change it, would be different. You cannot make yourself taller, longer or pick a physical characteristic. Sounds like she wants something else, maybe your pocketbook or bank account.

 

This is the fiancé. What you guys don’t know is I lied for a year about it. He asked me over and over and would not give in and begged me for the truth. So I said yes my ex had a bigger dick but it dosent matter because I love you and I’m with you. I decided Honestly was the best policy since I would want the truth. Yes it hurt him and I’m sorry it hurt but after a year of being yelled at and questioned I felt I had no other choice but to tell him the truth. His post is very one sided and exaggerated.

 

Also I did not tell him his dick is 7 out of 10. When he asked me to rate him I said no for a long long time. And finally gave in and rated him higher but he won’t accept that and says “ no it’s a 7 and you know it”. So he gave himself a 7. I told him about two guys because he made me go through every guy I’ve ever slept with and compare his dick to theirs.

 

He sent me this forum because he wanted me to see all the hurtful things everyone said. Now I’m crying. So who really hurt who here.

 

I spent the whole morning kissing this man and telling him how much I loved him and he returned none of it

 

Ha!

 

If you're real, you're cruel!

 

If you’re going thru this before marriage you better rethink getting married. Marriage takes work, compromise and patience. If you’re dragging this baggage into a marriage you might as well start writing the divorce papers before you say your vows.

 

So Fiance, lied about ex's dick size. Was it not a 8 and 9 inch. or not better. Sounds like you 2 have some issues, to settle.