Girlfriend ignores that I'm bi

She says she expects it, but then turns around and says it's weird and she doesn't think about it. She grew up in an Uber Christian home that looked down on this stuff. I just don't know if I can continue of she just wants to ignore it

 

My ex wife was the same way.. acted like she was cool with it but then flipped around once we were married. It wasn’t a reason we divorced but I wouldn’t have married her if I had know she would be this way. I honestly don’t think someone can truly love someone if they don’t accept everything about them. Just my
Opinion

 

Yeah that is what my thinking has been. We're not stable right now as it is and thats just kinda adding to the problem

 

it’s not my life but My advice is to take a break. Maybe forever, maybe not. But definitely get out for now

 

It sounds to me that she is not happy with it and may never accept it. It's probably best to break it off because if she can/will never accept your preference it will always be a wall between the two of you.

 

It's a one way street with some women. I hadn't been with a guy/suck buddy since HS/college.....he was a regular. A few years later I was living with my GF. She was the hottest horniest and taught me a lot about sex. However, she didn't know about my past MM history. Somewhere I found a book about a bi married guy. I kept it in my briefcase. One day GF got nosey and found it. She flipped out.....accusing me of being gay. Things started going downhill from there. She started hanging out with a bi female coworker of hers, staying out late and coming home disheveled. We eventually split up and GF moved in with her bi friend. A double standard!
When my present wife and I were first feeling each other out, I confessed to my suck buddy. At first she was taken aback, wondering if she'd call off the engagement. Eventually the thought of me having MM sex started turning her on. We started watching MMF and gay/lesbian porn. She even had a one nighter with an experienced married bi friend of hers! COOL! We had several MFMs with the same good friend, and then my now wife suggested we find a bi guy for a MMF. COOL! We looked for a while but couldn't find the right bi guy. We had one more MFM and the wife shut it down to ever having another person with us in bed. SHIT! She rediscovered her religious upbringing and said no more, and has now shut down sexually for 3 years. If she knew I had reawakening MM desires she'd probably leave me. Would be nice to find a good married bi guy and explore again. You know, play golf, tennis, whatever......have a couple drinks and relieve each other's tensions......preferably a few times a month.

 

Good advice. I was a "closeted cock sucker" for 20 of the 28 years I was with my first wife knowing she would never accept or understand. My present wife of 7 years has been a different journey. I revealed my same-sex activities and desires to her very early on as I just blurted it out one day. She was not at all surprised having heard many men as they age experiment and wanted to hear everything as I began to spill my guts to her. She accepted it from day one and we're both involved regularly with a m/f bisexual couple.

 

My girl knows but ignores it. She’ll pull it out as a dig in a fight. Like oh well why don’t you go fuck a guy. I’m like okay!

 

And she doesn’t even know how many guys I’ve fucked around with. Before her I was kinda a man whore!

 

She’s pretty white milk compared to me. I’m much more kinky!

 

Do you still mess around?

 

I know exactly what you're up against Papa. My Dad was a southern Baptist preacher.

 

Mine suspected me for a long time, from things she had seen me do She knows but doesn't talk about it, just smiles is all. I think she likes the idea of it really

 

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That's great. My wife loves watching me suck our lovers cock but that first time she watched was an over the top experience.