Girlfriend Doesn't Help Me Finish On Skype?

Hello.
So, long story short, met this chinese girl (who is 19, I'm 20, both virgins) in October, after 2 weeks she went back to China. We decided to try and keep it long distance and it has been working so far, I really love her. Now, while we were together we didn't had sex, it was really passionate kisses and all that wonderful stuff, but eventually, we started to want to do it, too bad she had already left . We started by sexting, into phone sex, and eventually into Skype, where we both masturbate together. I always let her finish first because I want her to enjoy herself as much as possible, so I don't ejaculate, but she always finishes all of a sudden, like, she's fingering herself, moaning a bit, and then she takes her fingers out and is like "I'm done", and I'm fine with that, thing is, that leaves me to finish up after her, but sometimes (50% of the times) she doesn't help me finish, she either says "Stop doing it" or "Do it by yourself", which as you guess is a problem for me, since I do as much as I can to help her, but when it comes to me it looks like she doesn't care. Plus, today, we did it, and it was one of those times that she didn't want to help me, but the thing is, she went to watch porn, while I finished, so I asked "Didn't you finish already? If not, then give me some help / attention", she replied with "I'm not in the mood anymore, I'm watching so that I can get into the mood".

So, after this huge wall of text, my question is: Is it normal that women do this? I know that us guys do, after we finish it's pretty much game over, is it normal that she does the same thing? Because she just stops all of a sudden. I kind of need some tips, because it kind of frustrates me sometimes...

Listen, I know that I probably sound like a retarded kid talking, since it's a long distance relationship... But I really needed to let this out of my shoulders, we've talked about it, and she says that after she's finished she's really not in the mood, but sometimes she wants to watch porn afterwards, to "see the penis into the vagina (haha)".

We're really commited into this, and we share everything, any tips? Feel free to ask for more info.

 

sounds like a bitch who gets off on being a bitch to you.

next time you should just cum really fast and tell her you're done. if it doesn't seem to annoy her at least a little bit, it kind of proves that she's only in it to fuck with you.

 

there is zero chance of you being happy with this relationship and you are just kidding yourself.....you say ''its working so far'' and then go into detail about how it isn't working for you.....all of what you are describing is not normal relationship progression so stop thinking with your dink and get smart

blow her off

 

What is her skype name I’ll ask her for you? What’s your skype so I can tell you what she says? Hell I’ll help you finish if you want.