Ghosting

Discussion in 'People' started by Mamluke, Jul 15, 2019.

  1. Mamluke

    Mamluke Members

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    Why do people ghost people who they knew had an emotional connection with them?I think that is spine of the worst things to do I heard nowadays relationship s and by one person just ghosting and a lot of ghosting happens during a tragic event?and I noticed a lot of people tend to have a doctor jekyl and mister hyde thing going on one time they are so cool and then out of nowhere they hate your guts
     
  2. Irminsul

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    ghosting?
     
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  3. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Someone who cuts off all communication with the person they're dating with no notice.

    Although you’ve probably heard the expression in movies “ghost that motherfucker” meaning kill that SOB
     
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  4. Irminsul

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    I'mma ghost that motherfucker, I don't care who you are back in the world. You make a sound one more time, I'll bleed you, real quiet, leave ya here... GOT DAT!
     
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  5. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    I've been on both sides of it, I think.

    people usually ghost when they don't want to deal with the emotional side of the breakup, either because they don't know how or just don't want to. The only time I really ghosted someone was because they didn't want to accept that I wasn't romantically interested in them and would constantly bring it up again and again despite me being straight forward about it for a period of months. Eventually our friendship broke down and I became busy with other things.
     
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  6. GLENGLEN

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    It's Posts Like This That Make Me Glad You Live On The Other Side Of The World.....:screamcat:



    Fears Glen.
     
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  7. Irminsul

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    [​IMG]
     
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  8. Driftrue

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    it's cowardly.
    it also makes it hard to move on.
    sometimes that's what the person doing the ghosting wants, i think.
    you can more easily go back to someone you ghosted, than broke up with properly.
     
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  9. Irminsul

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    So basically, you're dating someone and then you don't want to anymore so instead of ending it you just don't talk to them anymore and completely ignore them?
    Who does this? :tearsofjoy:
     
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  10. Driftrue

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    Assheads.
     
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  11. Irminsul

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    Give me his Facebook. :) I will make him fall in love with me and then I will ghost him. And we will laugh. :) I've never got to dump anybody before. I'm ready to be a heart breaker!
     
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  12. Mamluke

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    it's sad but it was someone I was close to I thought and when someone close to me passed away he did not want to be bothered and just disappeared what's do hard and telling peoplr straight up on how you feel in a respectable manner
     
  13. Driftrue

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    It is sad, Mamluke. But humans are very funny things and emotions are a complex and difficult thing for a lot of us to handle.
    We get awkward and uncomfortable and haven't yet, collectively, learned the value of Absolute Truth and Absolute Acceptance, so we run away.
     
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  14. mallyboppa

    mallyboppa Senior Member

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    Been on both sides of that fence in my life !
     
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  15. Driftrue

    Driftrue Banned

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    Me too.
     
  16. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    it's how people typically leave hipforums.
     
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  18. StellarCoon

    StellarCoon Dr. Professor

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    i haven't even posted my knife collection
     
  19. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

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    But can your knives wreck everything and ruin all their lives????
     

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