Gf is going on a date, am I a cuck?

Hey everyone,

My gf of 3 years (most of which has been LDR), has decided to go on a date with a guy she met on Tinder. They've been talking for a few weeks and seem to hit it off. She's about to meet him right now, and I'm so excited and turned on. She is not looking for a relationship, but she has agreed to tease me a little, don't think she'll have sex with him either.

She bought a top to wear just for him which is pretty low neck and she has an amazing chest, so she unbuttoned it to show him as much cleavage as she can. She's also wearing no bra, which she's never done before even with me so when she leans over he'll get to see it all, plus she has a nice slim body. I'm a little jealous but that's turned me on a lot.

Am I a cuck? She hasn't slept with him and she probably won't, so does it really count?
And do you have any tips for making him her regular side-guy?

 

For context: I too have been seeing other people, but I want to establish a thing where I have other partners and so does she until we can end the long-distance.

 

what exactly is turning u on? since shes not getting intimate with him

 

I laughed when I read two things. First, she is not looking for a relationship. Second, she is not going to fuck him.

 

Might be just me, but this story sounds like it belongs in literotica.com

 

Well that's how it is. She said she might do some sexual things much later on but not go all the way as she would only want that from me.

 

I could write a fantasy based on this...but this is real lol, so any tips or advice?

 

Just the fact that another man is able to touch her and enjoy a connection with her, and she said she'd get somewhat intimate later on. I guess just the thought of sharing her, we've been pretty vanilla. So far it's going well, she wants a second date with him.

 

How do you feel about being best man at their wedding?

 

Hey bro let him have his moment don’t be negative bro you can leave that shit at the door he wnjoying his time and sharing it with others so be glad he doing that

 

I am negative? Quite the contrary, I am being very positive!

 

Bro why would u say something like if he going to lose her to that guy bro u don’t know everything put your jumping to a end how about you tell him enjoy the experience and not how he going to feel being his best man at their wedding come on bro

 

Ok, there is no way to give advice, not enough info and some what contradicting Info along with a baseless conclusion

-Need more history to the lead up to this situation
-the contradiction is the ending questions don't completely fit
-false conclusion is she is not looking for a relationship, dating someone is a a specific definition of one

Not trying to be mean, my professional life was about analyzing and solving problems, I can't help but to point out when a situation is not adding up.
When it does I can help.

I do hope the best for whatever you're looking for.

 

Yes I’ve been on the other side of this as a bull if you want to call it and the women love their men they are just into more things then others and the husband enjoy it just as much as I do

 

Very funny, but it seems you've missed the point.

 

What he said, thank you.

 

Thank for pointing out what was confusing, I edited the original post a little now.

-Due to LDR, we've decided to try seeing other people, but still have each other as the main partner. This does not mean get into other relationships necessarily, just have a side-partner to have fun with.
I've had success with this, having hooked up a few times and found a stable side-partner. She however is very vanilla, and is just now exploring herself, so she doesn't want to go all the way (sexually) with anyone. But, in order to balance it out, she is seeing a guy to have her idea of fun, which is going on dates, maybe getting somewhat intimate, etc. but we've assured each other we're the main partner in any situation. Nothing serious, just harmless sharing to spice things up and help us deal with the distance.

Hope that clears it up and allows you to answer my questions!

 

well if its going well then u just have to be patient, clearly she likes him enough to want to go out with him again. this is how it started for me and my bf and its going great, but everyones different.

 

It is hard for a relationship to survive another party getting involved unless the relationship is very strong to begin with. Strikes me as risky in a LDR.

 

Will keep that in mind, our relationship is very strong and we have agreed that if it interferes with our relationship too much she will drop it. Considering I've gotten other partners before and our relationship is still strong, we are pretty confident.