Getting to wet decrease pleasure for guy?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by jenessy, Sep 20, 2013.

  1. jenessy

    jenessy Member

    I get really wet when I get turned on, I cant help it and I personally don't have a problem with it. I could just be giving a blowjob and I get so wet and turned on it drips down my thigh. Now, I've heard that getting too wet decreases pleasure because there is less friction, that makes sense. And I noticed that the very first time I had sex with my boyfriend he couldn't last more than 10 he was struggling to last that long lol. But the second time and every other time after that he's lasted about an hour or longer and makes comments that he could feel how wet I am. I usually end up having to suck him off or do anal so he could finish(which I don't mind). So is he lasting that long because he cant really feel anything? Or is it a bad thing if a girl gets to wet? For the guys, what does it feel like having sex with a girl that doesn't get to wet compared to a girl that does?
  2. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    A woman getting too wet - that would be a big turn on ! All that sexual body fluid dripping out of you & turning a dry patch into a soaking wet area - that's a turn on !
    I usually have to place lube on my wife's vaginal entrance & inside it to make it less uncomfortable for both of us.
  3. sleepy eyes

    sleepy eyes Guest

    It all has it's pro's and con's. I think knowing a woman is that excited is only going to make the entire thing the more interesting. But as to prefer less wet or more wet for actual sex I like it not so wet. To know she wants you that much is a massive turn on but I actually feel the woman more which helps me at times find that right spot and hit it just right for her. But having a nice slippery slide can be mind blowing. Tough call.
  4. NextEvolution

    NextEvolution Member

    I have been with women who got extremely wet and loved it because I could pound them hard and long as I wanted due to the decreased friction. Sometimes I had to use her ass, mouth or hands to finish but usually a quick swipe of the juices off my cock with my hand or slowing down and letting her lose her flow a little is enough to get the enough friction to finish. So it depends on what your definition of "less pleasurable" is...

    I'd rather go for a couple hours on a girl that gets really wet than to be with one that is not wet enough and having to apply lube.
  5. Irminsul

    Irminsul Valkyrie

    Nothing is more of a turn off than giving your best and the pussy stays dry.. Like wtf? I know all girls differ but it's a shock when I come across it because generally I find women are usually able to lubricate themselves.
  6. silk896

    silk896 Member

    A girl can never get too wet. NEVER!

    It signifies an emotional response and we all like that.
  7. jenessy

    jenessy Member

    Thank you guys for the feedback. I love sex and look at it as a priority, I'd never want the guy I'm with to think it was dull or not pleasurable. And if it was I'd be crazy to not try and fix it lol this reassures me a lot!
  8. hornyape

    hornyape Member

    My wife gets very wet, and I love it. especially when she sit on my face and im covered in all that pussy juice. And it doesn't seem to effect me cumming when Im fucking her!
  9. doc1

    doc1 Guest

    im with hornyape the wetter the better.
  10. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

    This ^^^^^:iagree:
  11. Willy Blue

    Willy Blue Senior Member

    Its never bothered me to be honest, I have never not ejaculated because a woman got to wet!! In fact women have been known to just look at my dick and it will go off!!!
  12. Metalhead79

    Metalhead79 Visitor

    Put it this way, if i could have a waterfall of pussy juice coming out of a woman i couldnt be happier ;)

    The wetter the better!!
  13. Grim Reaper

    Grim Reaper Guest

    I cant say there is anything better than having sex with a girl who gets soaking wet. Yea I could last longer but it gets me horny as shit to know my girl is enjoying herself. The best feeling when I feel her juices all over my balls and pelvis I don't think I've been lucky enough to have a girl that wet when giving me head I would go nuts. Whoever that guy was was one lucky s.o.b
  14. His Eden

    His Eden Queen of Mean

    My husband is more likely to cum faster the wetter I get. As for a loss of friction, my kegels are well toned so that really isn't an issue. No matter how wet I am, I still orgasm to the point he has to work at it to stay inside because I get so tight. Instead of worrying about being too wet, try flexing your kegel muscles and see if that helps.
  15. blue69lover

    blue69lover Guest

    Silk896 nailed it. A woman can never be too wet. The wetter the better.
  16. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

    Someone's gonna need to have a towel on hand when they have sex with me.
    Where's the "slippery when wet" signs? I can't help it.
  17. TAZER-69

    TAZER-69 Listen To Your Heart! Lifetime Supporter

    I have a lot of towels...and a willing tongue. Just saying.
  18. deleted

    deleted Visitor

    fake lube ,, yes, it can be to much slippy, but slippy is fun.. if fun is all you want to have.

    natural vagina wetness stimulates the penis more than fake stuff..

    funny story: making love in the dark. geee baby your pussy is really wet this morning: turn lights on. blood.. :D
  19. The longer the sex, the better. Anyone will tell you that. If you continued having sex that lasted 10 min, then you'd have a problem on your hands. First times tend to be the shortest, since there's a lot to get used to. Hour-long sex is normal. Not to mention, have you considered the fact that he's trying not to cum inside you, so you won't get pregnant?

    I wish I had sex with a girl who was that wet. The only time I've had sex in my life was with a girl who had trouble getting wet. Ehhh ... trust me, THAT'S when you don't feel as much.
  20. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

    I have a willing pussy. ...just sayin..

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