Getting Old

Thanks, I like the way you Think! ❤

 

Well I don't know you, so I couldn't possibly say what you are. I was just speculating.

 

All's Good!

 

Definitely not if you got it flaunt it you only live once have fun fun fun

 

Dunno. What is a slut? If that is the definition of what you enjoy in life, then it is just judgemental blather if used negatively.

In response to some of the folks posting replies, I am rapidly closing in on 77 and very sexual. As one other gent said, monogamy was the requirement for my marriage, but I don't judge how others live their lives.

My wife has had medical problems so we have not had intercourse for over 26 years. She recently did make a number of efforts to have intercourse to keep me sexually active while medically castrate for cancer treatment. Wonderful thought on her part, but freaked me out as I know what it costs her. We have learned some hot tricks in non intercourse intimacy along the way.

I would possibly have sex with another woman if I were 100% sure it would not lead to regret and resentment on her part. She would have an impossible time trying to convince me it would be okay, though. She comes first.

 

I would like to know what your hot tricks are for me and my husband! ❤

 

Moderator note

Can you please avoid a sex chat within a none sex thread.

A PM may be a good idea

Thanks guys

 

Hi Alice, Loved reading your confession and love your lifestyle, the long term FWB and your being shared by others. I'd love to hear more of your experiences from these encounters.
As for your question, Does that make you a slut? Well... It depends on whether or not you want to be regarded as a slut. If the thought that you've been a very naughty girl by letting boys have their way with you makes you feel good inside, then yes, I'd be happy to call you a slut, but with a smile and not a sneer. If on the other hand the thought that you might be considered by others to be a slut causes you shame and embarrassment then let me reassure you. You are not a slut. You have found a way of bringing pleasure to others with your husband's agreement and support. You're not a slut.
Now, you tell me, which are you... the naughty little girl or the angel?

 

IMV, the term slut is a derogatory expression used by prudes and which says more about them than the person they have labelled.
Nothing you have described seems remotely wrong. Indeed, I think, it seems positively marvellous.
Live your life your way and if you enjoy it and if it harms nobody else, everything is good.

 

Life can get shorter as we get older (72). Go for it, As long as everyone is in agreement, Go for it. Enjoy life.

 

When people tell me I'm getting older, I typically tell them that it beats the alternative. That said, it's been popular among men to have a harem, which guarantees that at least a few among the number will still be providing sex when the wife group gets old enough to no longer enjoy sex as often, but it's a little atypical for a woman to be the one who needs it more often than the husband. As much as it may seem weird, it strikes me as being a viable solution so long as nobody gets hurt in this arrangement.

 

Love that!

 

When I was younger I hated the idea of being old. Now i'm here I do enjoy it

Although, you do get away with a lot more in your youth

 

Do your thing, Alice- don’t worry about what others think. You aren’t hurting anyone and you have approval from your husband and friends- what more can anyone want?! Freakin SWEET!!

 

Pre-op emotional support from my brother:
"How can they do a hip replacement? You were never that hip to begin with."

Giving a whole new meaning to "Hip Forums".

 

Thanks for posting, haven't heard Janice in a while.

 

I love Joplin!

 

I agree, that's what I need a Harem... Seriously, it would be nice if women view sex as a need, rather than "love." Of course, this is just my opinion. If you don't care to have sex anymore, why deprive the partner. I might be out there alone on this one.