Getting Old

Ok I'm in my early 60s, I still enjoy sex with my husband and my FWB! I have had my friend since my mid 20's. He and his wife are very good friends, both my husband and his wife knows about this. Hubby likes to watch if he is home. His wife never liked sex and is glad that I am there to take care of him. I'm in pretty good shape for a Old Country Girl! Went to Yoga last night, I have been Shared with others. Does this make me a Slut? I want to Enjoy Life as Long as I Can!

 

For 61 years everyone kept saying 'with age comes wisdom'.
Well, here I am. Now, where the hell is it?

 

Hi Alice.


I'm sort of old fashioned in that regard. I stop short of judging you or labeling you though.

For my own personal relationships, I have cheated, come clean, & been a pretty rotten scoundrel at the end of the day.

As a result, I have become adamantly opposed to participating in anything other than the strictest monogamy.

 

My mate's an invalid; we haven't had sex in two years. She'd like for me to leave her and find another, mostly so she'd then feel free to commit suicide. From the moment we became lovers, monogamy was explicitly the non-negotiable price of admission. I'm not saying that the price is too high, but under the circumstances it really is a very hard thing.

 

There is a 5 minute window of wisdom right before senility sets in... Watch for it.

 

I'm a 62 y/o guy and I haven't had sex in over a year. My g/f and I don't have sex due to her medical issues and now we are more like room mates to each other. I'm old school and pretty much believe in monogamy but masterbation is starting to get old.
I need to get laid.

 

As long as your husband and your FWB's wife are okay with it then by all means go for it. As Janis sang, "Get it While you can"! You're no slut (a word I don't use lightly).

I'm 66, let me know if you ever visit Portland Oregon.

 

I believe you should absolutely enjoy life. Very happy to hear you have an arrangement that works for you and all involved.

 

'Get where and when you can' - there's no reason to stop doing something that you still get pleasure from - (Hope it's safe Sex )

 

You Rock!

 

If all parties involved are comfortable with it, Then why worry what others may think I have come to realize that life is too short to worry about titles. ( unless you want that "title" ) Enjoy what life offers.to you and your husband. If it means that you are both comfortable then do not worry about others.

 

Thanks! Sometimes I like to be a little bit Slutty!

 

I hear that death lasts quite a while. If one doesn't get done that which one desires during this quickly passing gift of life----short of harm to others---what was the point? Therefore--GET IT ON, WOMAN!!!! GET IT ON REAL GOOD!!!

 

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No it doesn't make you a slut, it just means you are enjoying an active sex life and so are those close to you by the sound of it. No-one should label you or judge you, but if it adds to it to feel slutty then go for it!

 

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Go for it SC, you never know when it might be gone.

 

I like the way you think! ❤

 

You are as old as you feel, meaning you may be in your 60s but feel and act like a 30 year old full of life. Life is too short and you need to live it to the fullest. Believe it or not you still have time to live a great life, remember that with age one acquire knowledge and wisdom. In regard to your sex life situation, if all parties involved agree, then so be it. For my part I will definitely enjoy sex until the end of my days on this earth, my wife is another story if you know what I mean, lol.

 

Go for it Alice . Look you have been doing this all this time and no one seems to have issues with it then enjoy it.
Sex makes all of us us feel better no matter what your age is.