Getting Back In The Game!

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Targetlock, Nov 17, 2014.

  1. Targetlock

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    Hi

    It has been almost two months since my break up, and i feel i have now let it go and i am ready to move on with my life and I have learnt from the experience and it has taught me lot and i have feel i have learned a lot and come out stronger for it.
    But now i feel i am eager to experience it again and try again and put myself out and maybe even get some winter romance [​IMG] I found love once, i can find it again [​IMG] maybe the real deal this time, looking forward to all the new dating adventures i end up on. now i can afford it with my new job i'm thinking of trying one of the proper dating sites at the start of the year possibly match or e-harmony just to expand my options. wish me luck, any advice or ideas would be great [​IMG] ladies, watch out because im back on the market [​IMG]
     
  2. Irminsul

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    Don't you worry about what you've been told
    'Cause honey I ain't even close to cold
    It's kinda soon to fall in love again
    Sometimes the best that you can do is just jump back in

    I got me a fearless heart
    Strong enough to get you through the scary part
    It's been broken many times before
    A fearless heart just comes back for more

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzDGvtJ2pgI
     
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  3. I'minmyunderwear

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    don't do e-harmony. i don't know that there's anything wrong with it, but the guy on the commercials is so incredibly creepy that i just want the site to fail because of him.
     
  4. RainyDayHype

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    Were you the dumper or the dumpee?
     
  5. Targetlock

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    very much the dumpee sadly, suddenly decided she no longer had feelings for me and couldn't take the pressure and did this through messaging rather than face to face (said it would have been too hard :( ) i havent heard from her since except a message a week later saying she is un-friending me on facebook, and all her friends and family did too :/ so yeah a pretty rough couple of months, but im done with it and the whole crappy situation to be honest and ready to move on.
     
  6. shygurl170

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    I am back in the game after 17+ years. I am me again and looking forward to meeting new people.

    I don't have time for foolishness or games. I know what I want.

    Ask me a few months how it is going! Lol

    Have fun!
     
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  7. Targetlock

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    Fun is not really the word i would use, just disappointment and frustration especially with OLD, lots of messages sent but no responses :/ and i dont feel free or anything just at the moment lost and abandoned trying to find my way. but i found love once, i can find it again :)
     
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  8. Targetlock

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    met someone new :) through OKCupid, it has gone from messaging to regular daily chatting and texting. hopefully might be meeting her in the new year :) taking things slow with this one, a year older than me, fellow geek and lives a few miles from me.
     
  9. Targetlock

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    ah never mind i got friend zoned :/ she realised she isn't ready for dating or a relationship at this time, as she has other issues to deal with. disappointing but worth a shot i guess, at least she was honest.
     
  10. SunflowerTea

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    It's been a year for me and still not ready to move on. I wish you the best and hope you find someone to share your life with.
     
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  11. Targetlock

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    good luck to you too, im still talking to her by the way so you never know.
     
  12. AussieDude

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    Good on you for moving on. I recently got broken up with (yesterday) and the worst part is, idk if we'll get back together or not because of circumstances. Breakup before that, I was out of the game for 2 years, which funnily was longer than the relationship.
     
  13. IMjustfishin

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    i thought ok cupid was supposed to be for one night stands. ive never really had a "relationship" come out of it. i think its kinda strange that guys will get into the texting and dating and courting game with someone that they dont really know. just ask her to meet you at a local hang out, then take her back to your place and close the deal.

    if you meet a stranger and you dont make a move to have sex, then why are you surprised that you got "friendzoned"?
     
  14. safetypills

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    Its ok to hook-up with someone online, but being in love instantly is not so good. Give the relationship a bit more time before actually proposing the partner.
     
  15. Targetlock

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    were just friends at the moment which im quite thankful for the original plan was to meet after christmas but she realised sh wasnt ready for dating yet as she had to sort stuff out in her life first.
     
  16. shygurl170

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  17. IMjustfishin

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    So what you wanna do, sheeeit
    I got a pocket full of rubbers and my homeboys do too
    So turn off the lights and close the doors
    But (but what) we don't love them hoes, yeah!
    So we gonna smoke a ounce to this
    G's up, hoes down, while you motherfuckers bounce to this


    man snoop gives the best relationship advice.
     
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  18. I'minmyunderwear

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    this is ALWAYS the last thing they say to you before you find out they're dating someone else.
     
  19. Targetlock

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    i dont think that is the situation with this one at the moment to be honest.
     

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