get a girl to notice you...

well i've never talked to nova b4, & this is the 1st time i've seen her round here, but astrick ya can use this as an example of how ya can approuch her..
hi nova, i just wanted you to know i was paying attention to what you were saying to that dude & your advice was very wise & caring & i just wanted you to know i appreciate it..& well..also i think your very beautiful, ..& i'd love to just hang out & talk sometime & get to know ya allittle better

just show some interest in her, not just physicaly cause that can creep her out, but show some interest in who she is as a person, her opinions & feelings

 

aww !! suuport her in classroom disscussions...thats such a nice thing to do and ll mnake her feel loved for her values and wahat she has to say.
also in school...its a very good idea to tell someone what you think about her..ie, shes so beautiful.. and they will tell her!! ha ha..schools great!!

 

aw dangitt i blew it haha i went to school and before class i see her and we sit sorta close but she was already talking to someone and i was just planing on saying HEY to get her to first aknolage me but so sh was already talking and by the time she awlkad in class it like started then we left and i was gonna try and see her after school and just say HEY again or whatever and I was walking out of my last class and she popped out of her class and started to walk past me and it was like a pop out in a movie. i like had a heart attack when she came out and choked, i didnt say anything...

so is that wat i should do tomorrow just be like "hey emily" when i see her, or will she be like "hey... (wtf, that was weird i dont even like talk to him)"

or should i wait for an oppurtunity to ask her something or where I can compliment her. cause i am scared i am gonna miss an oppurtunty and that would suck sooooo bad oh man that would suck. it already sucks i missed out on todays oppurtuntity

 

aw dangitt i blew it haha i went to school and before class i see her and we sit sorta close but she was already talking to someone and i was just planing on saying HEY to get her to first aknolage me but so sh was already talking and by the time she awlkad in class it like started then we left and i was gonna try and see her after school and just say HEY again or whatever and I was walking out of my last class and she popped out of her class and started to walk past me and it was like a pop out in a movie. i like had a heart attack when she came out and choked, i didnt say anything...

so is that wat i should do tomorrow just be like "hey emily" when i see her, or will she be like "hey... (wtf, that was weird i dont even like talk to him)"

or should i wait for an oppurtunity to ask her something or where I can compliment her. cause i am scared i am gonna miss an oppurtunty and that would suck sooooo bad oh man that would suck. it already sucks i missed out on todays oppurtuntity

 

dont' worry about it. we've all seen someone get shy. most girls would find it flattering. if she didn't she's an idiot. try try again.

 

yeah but she doesnt really notice me so she doesnt notice if i am being shy that is whhy i think i have to say hi to her once and then she will agknowlege me later but if i have never talked to her except 2wice once being "is the teacher here" .. "no"... and another being "didnt you used to have long hair" "haha yeah" "why'd you cut it" "I thought it looked stupid" "you saying long hair is stupid *with a smile*" "hahaha no"

so wouldnt it be kidna weird saying like HEY EMILY all the sudden wouldn't she be like "... *turn around and look at me weird thinking who just said that to me*"

idk

 

and some of my friends know her would it be a good idea to IM her online or say hi in person?

cause i think i w3ould be more comfportable on AIM and not nervous but it might still be sorta awkward

 

i don't think that would be wierd at all. not if you didn't run and hide once you said it.

 

I know the answer! Get high before the class. Not too high, not so you seem like an idiot, but just to calm your nerves and loosen you up a little bit.

 

hahahahahah i thought about that but i didnt want to like blow it and say something stupid because i was

 

but it would help cause when i am high i am a lot more social and stuff and dont have a problemt talking but idk it isnt worth the risk i gess

 

They'd expell you.

 

hahahaha they wouldnt find out it is not like i would go aroundyelling it but it doesnt matter i am not doing it

 

unless she's a stoner, she won't be impressed.

 

ha no she isnt well today is tuesday lets hope i dont choke again

 

That is what rules my decisions!!! And to add to that, I always feel like a winner when I talk to a girl and she turns me down cause I have beaten my restraint and idleness! Of course it'd be better to not be turned down but even then you have ascended a bit higher and next time you'll do even better!!!

 

yeah, i wouldn't go with the get high first route. It isn't going to impress the majority of gals.

Just say something casual, like how boring the class is or something, or if there's a school event coming up you can ask her if she knows any interesting details. and like kc said, not trying is a definite NO.

 

find out something about her that you can relate to or interests you too. then, once you find some commond ground, it will make an introduction easier. maybe something like, "hi, my name is ______, i heard you have an interest in ________ and i think we would have alot in common, i have to go now but i'd really like to get to know you better if you are interested"..... and then flash her a warm smile as you politely go, leaving the ball in her court. if she is interested in getting to know you more, friendly or romantic she will show it. either way, you introduced yourself in a non stalkerish manner and arent putting her on the spot to answer right away. and her body language and vibe will probably tell you how she feels when you encounter her again. besides, you will be being a bit mysterious and chicks dig that.

 

Just say something to her and ask if she wants to hang out or sumthing then if she turns u down she'll hopefully be nice about it if shes not then u probly dont want to go out with her anyways

 

I just found this forum--I like it! Lots of really interesting people on here.