gay sex with a straight man

I think you can be straight and experiment, but if you go back regularly you might not be straight.

Once, twice , a few times is OK. You are testing the water deciding for yourself or just scratching an itch or a bucket list fantasy. Ok, maybe your a bit kinky and want to do it with a guy, just once.

Testing the water might not define you permanently. One "Gay" encounter doesn't make you gay for life and maybe not even consider it being bisexual. It's just something you did/tried or experienced.

I haven't physically crossed that line but if I do I will do it on my terms to try it.

I'm straight but up for trying something different. I probably dont even make the grade as "Kinky" not to the degree that some might be but I could try kinky stuff with women or suck a clean cock given the chance.

 

Back when CL Personals was operating, I met so many married men like myself sexually deprived just looking for a blow job or to mutually suck cock to release their load. None of us wanted an affair with a woman, we actually didn't consider a blow job from a guy as cheating even though it really is. I had 5-6 guys (weekly) just wanting their cocks sucked and for me to swallow their load since their wives refused to do so. I also hooked up with many other married guys for mutual cock sucking. It really turned me on to watch a guy sucking my cock and taking my load and enjoying it. I especially enjoyed the guys just wanting sucked off, they were so appreciative of my skills and efforts with most of them saying "You suck cock far better than my wife" which I enjoyed hearing. I've had a "suck bud" for 13 years now that I met through CL whom I gave my anal cherry too with my wife's encouragement and participation. He and I consider ourselves bisexual but almost all of the other married guys I sucked off considered themselves straight, whom am I to question them? I was glad they allowed me to suck their cocks and meet their needs.

 

Yes I am the very type of married man with no sex life who has had a friend or two who have serviced me just as you say. I'm a give and take kind of guy and I came to enjoy sucking a good hot friend's hard cock, balls deep. I don't like categories but I have admired cocks for so long, but always pursued hetro relationships, and not acted on thedesire until desperation drove me to at 50. Looks like now, at 69 I'm needing to start again. Oral and the light stuff only has me feeling on the outer a bit.

 

Sounds like a lot of you like to suck to completion and want to drain the cum from every cock you suck.

I can't come at the idea of letting the guy blow in my mouth or swallowing a load.

I don't want a guys cum in my mouth. I'm happy to get blown My wife blows me sometimes and sometimes it's while we are 69'ing so I'm tonguing the fuck out of here while she gets me off.

I'm sure some lots of women like someone going down on them but probably don't think they would lick out a woman eating their juices.

I'm not into semen but could guys enjoy a bit of head knowing the other guy won't suck them to completion.

 

@thepapasmurph that suits me.
I hear so many here like to suck and enjoy the load. Yes any partner should be respectful of boundaries or thresholds. In any situation.

I'm coming from the angle I guess we both want to get off on it. He wants to dump his load and I'm just looking to see what it's like to suck a guy off and try things. When he can't dump a load in my mouth he's gonna be disappointed and if he's "Straight" he probably doesn't wanna suck cock or blow me.

Not saying I can't evolve to the point of wanting to more if I was into it but . Maybe want to take a guy to a finale but for now mutual oral and testing the the water seems a long way from meeting "Straight" guys who cruise parks, Craigslist or bars looking for blowjobs.

I've cleaned up my wife after blowing in her. Doesn't taste that bad but it's only been a couple of times and she's wet as and the sticky stuff is probably deep in where my tongue can't reach, well most of it.

I don't know I will get off on sucking cock or hom going I'm gonna cum, I'm gonna cum. But I am excited by the prospect of trying something.

 

The few friends I've sucked with were OK with where I was at. I haven't had any come into my mouth. It was quite an eruption at times and I was happier to watch it shooting out so I backed off in time. I may suck out a load to see what it's like, if and hopefully when I have another friend for masturbation and oral. It depends on the moment and how horny I am then. It's been too long and I do love a nice fat cock on a friendly guy who isn't in a hurry nor pushy and forceful. The thought of it gets me hard.

 

I went into this thinking I was a straight man! After desiring it more and more I realized I’m definitely not a straight man… would I have sex with a straight man? Yes if he’s willing to explore.

 

I’m a “straight” married guy. I think there’s a respect among married men that have no sex with their wives. Having sex with a guy, for me at least, there’s a multitude of reasons. It’s easier than finding a girl, another married guy isn’t likely to show up unannounced and it’s a little bit of a kink factor. I’m not attracted to men but I like having a cock in my mouth/butt. Some guys get together on occasion and play poker and have a guys night. Sex with a guy is kinda the same thing for me anyway. Occasionally get with a friend and have sex.

 

If 2 men are enjoying gay sex together, then neither one of them is "straight."

 

When I told a close friend of mine that I was Bi. He wanted to find out as much as he could. The more he talked about it the more I realized he was wanting a blow job from me. His fiancé, at the time, hated giving head. She tried once and was disgusted with it. After a little bit of answering questions about my bisexuality and how much experience I’ve had I finally asked him up front if he wanted a real good sucking from someone that loves doing it and is very good at it despite what his fiancée says about it. She has no idea.
So he got up took off his pants and underwear and I gave him his actual first blow job to completion. He never asked again nor did I offer. I wonder if that was one of the reasons he broke it off with her.

 

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. A mouth is a mouth when being orally deprived. 20-25 years ago, I was sucking off 3-5 married guys a week whose wives were not orally satisfying them. They all said it was better than jerking off and that I provided fantastic blowjobs to completion. Yes, I always swallowed which was what they really wanted. I was their cocksucker when needed, nothing else.

 

Sit back and enjoy because "we" are in for a treat.

 

They reckon you get a sore jaw sucking cock all day.

Is that another myth started by women who've lost interest in sucking cock. I'm sure they don't mind to be eaten out for their pleasure.

Like the joke I saw the other day.

A couple are in bed and he asks if she's up for fooling around. She replies no I have a Gynaecology appointment tomorrow I want to be fresh and clean.
Husband says "You don't have a dentist appointment though"

 

There were a few times when my wife was giving me a long blow job. After a while you could tell that she was getting tired, but she never quit. Finally she just told me to “do it“. So I just held her head and fucked her mouth until I came. She seemed pleased being used like that.

 

It seem that married men are the norm for me. I have had only one encounter with a single man many years ago. It seems to me there is a degree of sexuality most men have for other men, and it isn’t simply about being straight, bi, or gay. There are lot of guys that want to get blown but would never think of returning the favor. And as many who engage in blowjobs both ways but don't want to kiss a man or have any other contact with him. And guys on the other end of the spectrum who will want to be in a full on romantic relationship with another man.

I guess what I am getting at is that it isn’t a simple categorization, there is lots of nuance, and I think we do a disservice trying to pigeon hole people based on our own desires and limitations. And I guess I really don't understand the need to. There is much more to me than just being a married man who isn’t getting his needs met at home. And I believe the same is true of the men I have met with.