I put this in Philosophy and Religion, because I consider it an aesthetic judgment. Gay sex is beautiful. Especially between men. It is as close as two men can get. Men are always hurting and killing each other. Why not make love instead of war (forgetting for the moment most men aren't gay)? Why am I the only person who feels this way?
You are not the only one! And sex between guys is a great leveller I believe since it can be more likely that your partner may be of a completely different social-economic background that yourself......an example: I just had a hook up with a guy who worked in a betting shop. He told me a load of things about the system and clients (high betting 'Elite club' clients) that not ever having been a betting person I had no idea of. If it wasn't for our sexual interests I would have been very unlikely to have interacted with this guy. Simon
Wow, what a powerful statement! And you're absolutely right to have posted this statement here in the Philosophy and Religion section! Thinking about it, in my case this statement would definitely hold a strong religious meaning as well! I was raised in a strict Catholic household, so for a long time I felt there was a conflict between religious dogma and my budding sexuality. Looking back, coming to terms with such an obvious yet universal truth - perfectly exemplified by a simple mantra such as "Gay sex is beautiful" - has profoundly influenced my worldview, leading me on the path of exploring and embracing alternative spiritual beliefs!
Well, I'm a man that is uncomfortable even watching men kiss let alone the rest of it. However I do like to see women engaging in the art of love. Of course I'm a liberal guy that knows it's none of my business what anyone wants to do with others short of hurting someone without permission. There' something for everyone in this life and I mind my own business.
You don't even like seeing men kissing? Then desensitize yourself man ! Desensitize yourself! And don't worry. It won't make you gay. But I have to warn you. When other people do it, it might make them more tolerant. (Don't worry though. You seem to be okay on the subject .) EDIT: And by 'desensitize' I mean don't be afraid to see it sometimes.
It just makes me uncomfortable, but make no mistake--I would not hesitate to defend or merely stick up for any gay that was being harmed in any way. What other people do has no effect on my life , so I don't get why some folks get so uptight about what gay people wish to do. I don't really need to desensitize myself to men kissing--I'm not against it--I just don't think that I'm required to see it. My feeling about it neither harms me nor does it harm the kissers---so--all good. I DO have a gay daughter, but I suppose that that's another conversation that would end up as this one has--almost. I like watching women get it on. ( not my daughter -of course--)
One thing I've mentioned before is that sex with other men has made me a better lover with women. I think the main reason this happened is that sex with men made it much easier for me to admit that I have both masculine and feminine characteristics, and that I thoroughly enjoy experiencing both. By feeling feminine at times, I could identify with my female lovers in a very real way. Generally, women understand that the emotional aspects of sensuality are much more important than the mechanics of sex. I think I can sense what women are feeling during sex because I've experienced it from my own feminine perspective at times. I know that may sound weird to someone who regards themselves as strictly male or strictly female, but embracing both masculinity and femininity has become an essential part of maintaining happiness in my life.
I agree, There is something really beautiful and life affirming in two men having sex, the closeness, intimacy, and physical contact combined with a raw, uninhibited lust. Sensual and sexy at the same time. When I am fucked by someone I like, I feel a closeness to them that is beyond what I feel with a woman. I imagine that for many women that is how they feel about sex and I am grateful I have the ability to share that perspective when with a man.
I have a sex buddy that in general life terms we disagree on almost every topic except sucking cock. we can engage in a heated argument on politics or social beliefs but in the end we still take care of each other in the bedroom.
My guy and I love each other. My wife's says it's so sexy seeing two guys going at it...nothing makes me feel the way having a guy holding my hips as he's banging me, my legs over his shoulders, locked in a kiss as he pounds me. It's so hot.
Yeah I love it too when my partner grips me, puts his arms around me and fucks me.....I love the feeling of being taken and used and the force as he builds up to his orgasm. and kissing at the same time is so sexy...his tongue in your mouth and his cock fucking your hole at the same time. Simon
For me having regulars means I have built a bond or relationship with my buddy therefore feel I am making love with them .. gay sex Is beautiful with someone you care about