Gay men vs. bi men

I know I previously said I think "another bi guy might be ideal", but in reality I'm much more to get my actual needs/desires met with a gay top man (I'm a total bottom with men) than with another bisexual guy.
I really enjoy kissing/making out, holding hands, cuddling and hugging with the right guy, and gay men are more likely to want/need/crave intimacy/romance.
One of the most erotic things I've ever done is showering with an incredibly sexy gay black guy who had the most beautiful dick (and nutsack) I've ever seen. His dick was huge too (9.5"c and really THICK). He was too big to take it in my ass at that time, though I could probably take it now), but he was into kissing/making out and cuddling, which was great.
I know most bisexual guys wouldn't say another guy (or his dick) is beautiful, but under the right circumstances, I certainly would.

 

This is one of those polls that makes me wonder why we have to choose one over the other... when we can have and do both. I must add that I've done more blow and gos with gay men than bi men; and some bi guys are more of a love-making frame of mind than some gay men have been. And let's not forget that as far as some gay men are concerned, bi guys are Public Enemy #1 and should be avoided at all costs. Or there are still bi guys who believe that if they have sex with a gay man, his gayness is going to rub off on him and, no, I'm not trying to be funny because I've had guys tell me this as one of the reasons why they won't sleep with a gay dude; the other is the gay guy is more likely to be in the market for a boyfriend - but so are some bi guys.

I want to hook up with the guy who isn't going to be skittish about it; the guy who doesn't care if we're both bi or not; the guy who understands that blowing and going is... what it's always been. The guy who really understands that this is just sex - and anything more than that, if it appears, is gravy and is negotiable. Any I'll ask again: Why in the world would you want to put such restrictions on your sexual pleasure? As long as you're not my idea of an asshole, I could care less if you're bi or gay; you have a dick that I want to suck and cum I want to swallow and you should be of a mind to be about the this, too, because why would I want to not get sucked off when I know how fucking good it feels?