Gay men vs. bi men

Okay guys, so you want some man on man sexy time. Who would you rather hook up with, a gay guy or a bi guy? I just feel that a gay guy might be more into it. Personally, I want to be with a guy I can caress and have long makeout sessions with. Seems like bi guys are less into that. Does that make them less passionate and less enjoyable? Or does it matter?

 

gay guys much more relaxed and comfortable with their sexuality.....and generally much better lovers and sex partners.

I've also met many nice young bi guys but so many married biguys who are not out and in hiding are atrocious sex partners

But nothing set in stone....check out their cocks first.....hehe

Simon

 

As a bi man, I'm not interested in making out with another man. Maybe some conversation to begin, then I like to undress him, maybe some nipple play and when I get to his cock there is no doubt of my passion.

 

Another bi guy here though I have yet to be with a guy, so I guess I don't have as much to go on as I should. It's ironic the monosexual seems to be the preferred choice as conventional wisdom says bisexuality opens you up (no pun intended) to more ways of looking at sexuality and therefore allows you to be broader minded. This is basically the reason I would prefer a bi guy over a gay one at least in principle. It's also the reason I would prefer a bi lady over a straight one. Plus the bi vibe allows more understanding between each other, which in principle also adds to the experience. But I'm not going to rule out a gay guy with a convincing demeanor.
As to my intentions with men, as a bi guy, I will see what the future holds. For now I look forward to immersing myself completely in my first experience. That means getting to know each other first and hopefully after, flirting, foreplay, cuddling, and definitely a lot of kissing! This is as important to me as trying to make each other cum. I'm not looking to propose marriage but I want to be close with a man I sleep with. As I get in a groove maybe I'll be more open to a blow and go. Who knows?

 

Hmm well if the bi guy is very open minded and not shy then he would be fine. Other wise a gay guy.. but hey I’m down to make a bi guy come out of his shell too

 

This is basically where I am at.

 

I'm bisexual and prefer being with another bi guy especially during a mmf threesome. He and I tasting her off each others cocks. I love sucking a cock that just came from inside a woman's vagina. I've just always connected better with bi men because we have the same likes and when we're together one-on-one it's all about each others cock. I've had several experiences with gay men and the sex was fantastic but each one of them ended up wanting a relationship of the mind, body, and soul with me when all I wanted was his cock.

 

Been with both and I think if I had to choose one or the other from my experiences I would most likely choose partners who identified as gay.Labels only go so far but the reality is when two men have sex together it is gay sex.From my experiences the partners who identified as gay were more likely to let it go if u will no inhibitions more kissing ,caressing different positions more passion whereas a couple of partners who identified as bi were more likely to use my mouth and ass for their dicks and not much else to go along with it.Just my personal experience obviously

 

I'm not sure I've ever met a bi guy for sex. Probably because most are married and I feel bad about meeting them.

 

Not all bisexuals are married. Case in point here. Far from being married.
But yeah unless there's an open marriage situation and the other spouse is OK with me I don't feel comfortable doing anything.

 

I like being with another bi guy, it just seems more erotic to me

 

Married or not, bi men seem less likely to get into a relationship with another man. While I will never knowingly fuck a man's wife, I have no problem sucking the husband's cock. A few happy words after he cums, he's on his way with no emotional connection.

 

It matters to me. If we are to be seen in public together, I want my bi/gay sex partner to not present themselves a feminine gay man.
I'm not out, don't want to be outed.
I have yet to be with a bi-guy that when ask face to face refused to engage in tit/nipple play or refused to kiss me if I ask him to kiss me.
Those are some of the things that must be sorted 'before' you begin a sexual relationship.

Keep in mind you are building sexual relations with a man and most bisexual men do not respond to to intimate relations the same way women or truly gay men do.

 

I personally think another bi guy would be ideal. I've had more than one gay guy try to get me to completely "switch teams." As much as I like cock, I could never give up women

 

As much luck as I do not have with women, I will never give them up either.

 

I would prefer a bi man that does not ever want a relationship with a man. A close friendship, sure, but I'm not wired to be either bi or homo romantic.
Besides which, we'd have more life experiences in common as friends, and be interested in women? I'd love to have a close bi male friend that we could have mmf's or ideally mmff's together!
An effeminate acting gay man would likely draw scrutiny and questions, as only a couple people know. But I'm not interested in that type to begin with, just my personal preference.
I wouldn't mind a masculine presenting and acting gay man, if he understood it was just sex and friendship, and nothing else?

 

It really depends what a guy is looking for. And that may change over time as he explores his bisexuality. When I started my bisexual journey I was only interested in a man cock, and having it in my mouth or mine in his. Over time I wanted to try being topped and once I did it felt very sensual and it lead me to wanting to be made love to including intimate kissing.
I have found my sexuality to be a continuum and not static at all.

 

I don't care if you're LGBTQ whatever if you're nice to me. However, being an asshole is a non-negotiable deal-breaker.

 

That's the bottom line, isn't it?

 

It depends on some stuff and the men in question as well as do we have the time to really get deep into it or not. Experience has taught me that bi guys are great for that quickie blowjob (aka, the dreaded blow and go) and gay guys are perfect when it's a long make-out session that's called for. Personally, the sexuality of the guy doesn't matter to me: It's whether or not he wants to do something and we can agree on what we can do. I've found that gay guys are more likely to say "yes" quickly than bi guys would; most bi guys have to keep their secret a secret so there's some stuff they need to think about that gay men usually don't have to consider.