ladies-have you or your s/o been able to find your g spot? Do you find stimulating it gives you more intense orgasms? Men-are you able to find and stimulate g spots easily, or is it difficult to find in some women? Personally, I had heard about the g spot for a long time but never thought much about it. I tried finding it on myself and couldn’t so I figured maybe I just didn’t have one, or it wasn’t pleasurable for me. When my husband and I were dating, we started talking about it and I said “ya-I don’t think I have one, or if I do, it doesn’t do anything for me” and he was like “I’m an expert, you don’t know what you’re missing” then he proceeded to give me oral and stuck his fingers inside of me and stimulated it right away! Gave me such an intense orgasm I never knew existed. Apparently he had spent time researching about it and perfecting the technique in his past. Now when we have sex, it always leads to me vibing my clit while he stimulates the g spot with his fingers and it gives the most intense, and long lasting orgasms. Curious to see what others experiences with it are.
I'm super extremely multiorgasmic and yes G-spot definitely gives a different sensation than clitoral orgasms. So it's definitely a thing.
I am not pretentious but I would love to meet you and give it a very good try. I met 3 women who needed harder work to orgasm with their G spot. They are not all the same for finding them and stimulating them.
I have done a ton of research, but haven’t worked on doing kegels (probably need to after having kids ) I guess we will just have to keep trying and trying-oh darn
I wonder if it’s my cervix my husband hits in doggie style and he goes hard and fast..it certainly is enough for me to orgasm if we kept it up for a while. Unfortunately, it’s too stimulating for my husband and he can only last about 2 minutes before cuming...
In doggy style man's cock may be able to reach the cervix and this gives a different sensation to the woman. Ii the penis length is right ( at least 5.5 inches) the head of the penis can reach the posterior fornix area which is just beyond the cervix. At this point it is too stimulating to he man. I won't be able to hold for more than 3 - 4 minutes.
My husband is a solid 7 in so I guess defintely too stimulating for him and why he can’t maintain for more than a couple minutes-but he makes up for it by stimulating my g spot just right with his fingers while I vibe my clit-it works for us, I just wish I could actually orgasm with him inside me some of the times...
I found my wife's g spot when we were dating in college. It was obvious when my fingers found the magic spot. I still work on it occasionally, but it makes her have an orgasm too fast, and I enjoy longer sessions of sex.
I hope you will soon have orgasms while he is inside you. It needs some delay training for your husband.
same for me, can’t last deep with doggie style Have you thought of and tried using a dildo or something to bring you close then he gets in deep, as per your wishes for fast and hard? Maybe that will get you to orgasm from him and best scenario, he orgasm with you or after.
Your husband tried to delay his ejaculation before? A. Don't go deep, for a while. B. Stop thrusting until the urge to ejaculate and penis sensivity go away - sensitivity meaning the tingling when the ejaculation is imminent. If he gets close and has an orgasm without the ejaculation, you will feel his penis twitch and orgasm inside. C. Pull out. Any of those choices,
Problem with that is if he is going deep/hard/fast and gets me on the road to an orgasm, and then has to stop so he doesn’t cum, I lose my buildup and have to start over and that’s the loop we get caught in. I think using a dildo first and getting it pretty close and then switching to him is a great idea-no idea why we never thought of it before. That’s why I like this forum, lots of different perspectives and great idea to try
I see. Just wondering, again. For a man, this is edging. Some women love it, I had done it to my fwb before. SWEET torture! Would that work with you?
For me, personally, edging doesn’t really work. My husband has tried it for himself, he doesn’t love it but will do it on occasion. I wish my husband had the stamina he said he did in his 20’s/early 30’s..but now that he is in his mid 40’s, his refractory time is fairly long so it’s not going to happen twice in a night.
unfortunately for many men, myself included Oral, fingering and toys come handy then That’s when the magic pill comes in myself, the desire is there, I just can’t will my body to rise to the occasion, pun intended When I tried Cialis I was happy to get hard more often. I enjoyed being able to give more orgasms with myself and enjoy penetration for myself