Being a straight guy is pretty easy to figure out (except for actually getting women in bed). There’s not a lot of confusion throughout the process for me at least. Being bisexual sexually about 20% and 80% straight has a lot of twists and turns without a lot of answers. We all have fantasies which helps us get to where we want to go but sometimes those fantasies take a turn that makes you wonder where that come from. Porn is a tool that can help visualize that particular kink without actually doing it. Sometimes we realize it’s better left as a fantasy and sometimes we actually want to do it. tge question then is, if you do it and it’s not what you thought it would be, can you go back to enjoying the fantasy? I fantasized all kinds of different scenarios with guys for over 20 years and one day I did it. I enjoyed it but it wasn’t as fulfilling as I’d hoped but now after some time the fantasy is back to being fun and exciting again.
Fantasies can definitely switch ones mind into a guessing and question frenzy. Who what when where and why from every angle. Myself, almost every fantasy I've had, and many that I still have, have come directly from watching porn. Video after video, category after category. Looking for things that send vibrating tingles through my cock and balls, and a rush of curiosity through my mind. Some are getting the back button in under a minute, others have my mind in overdrive and clicking on related videos. Always letting my wife know what's sparking interest, or in some cases, it's the 2 of us doing it together and talking about things. My favorite is when we have the other find a video that they think is hot/neutral/not. Without knowing their thoughts, we watch it together and the opposite has to be honest and say if they find it hot or not. 95% of the time we're both on the same page. When we have a different opinion, we each talk about why we like/dislike it. It helps us understand each other's comfort levels and how open we are to try something. Finding things that give me the spark and curiosity often left me with more questions than answers. And that's why I became a member here the instant I heard about it. The amount of information and different views from so many people is priceless. And meeting so many wonderful people is a great bonus!
