When my wife and I divorced, I thought I would never have any lustful feelings for her, ever! Then, about a year after we had split, and during which time I had not found a steady-fuck, she called to ask if I could lend her some money, for a deposit on a new apartment. I said "sure" and told her to come over to get it. When she arrived and we got to talking, I learned that her experience was much like mine. She had let several guys fuck her, but none of them turned out to be "keepers". We then laughed and agreed that sex had been the best part of our marriage. Without either of us asking, we just undressed and went after it. We fucked the rest of the afternoon and I came twice, to her three or four times. It was easily the best fuck-session we had EVER had! But, we both agreed that we should not get back together, for various reasons, and that this would probably be our last fuck-session. I was in tears the last time I came in her pussy, and I know she was feeling sad too. But it is wonderful to know, many years later now, that our final fuck was under such great circumstances, instead the fucks of hate and lust that we had shared several years earlier. Wouldn't it be great if everyone could go back and find those previous fuck-partners, whose endings were not happy, and re-fuck them and fuck-away all the hurt and anger? In this case it worked for us. Even though we have not fucked again, we are at least friends, to the surprise of all our friends and family.
How come you fuck others but she lets others fuck her. I'm sure it's some weird male dominate thing but it just seemed weird to read.
I actually do not have a "fuck-buddy" relationship with her now. We have both moved on. The thing that is most memorable about this last time I fucked her was that I was not treating her as a "lover", but as a "Pussy!" She was just someone to fuck, to shoot my load into, and that was a completely new experience for me. While we were married, I always tried to please her, and to put her pleasure first, even at the expense of my own. This time, I fucked her for MY sake, and that was a completely new concept for me. Jo King does make a good observation, in that we're always talking about guys fucking women, and seldom the other way around. I guess it is because We have the cocks, by which fucking is made possible. But I understand the question. Women should feel as free to fuck men, as we are to fuck them. However we call it, aren't we all glad when it happens?
What I hate is when people say stuff like "you gave it up" or "you let him take advantage of you/you let him fuck you." That's why I avoid this type of thinking by keeping my lifestyle to myself.
Oh for a Fuck buddy - (not sad and bitter then = lol) When in a (successfully/sexual) relationship there is always going be a lasting connection-which comes from being able to 'reach the parts that other cannot reach'. I've always been a fan of free exuberance of freedom of Spirit - so I feel if consensual and indeed enjoyable "Keep on Truckin'"
"One slip, and down the hole we fall It seems to take no time at all A momentary lapse of reason That binds a life for life A small regret, you won't forget, There'll be no sleep in here tonight..."~~Pink Floyd, 'One Slip' And from the same song, "Was it love, or was it the idea of being in love?"
I will tell this other story about my ex. I was able to get a few nude photos of her when we were married. She always kept them under control, but when she was divorcing me, I was able to get them, to keep as bargaining chips later. Later, one of her old boyfriends came around, hoping to fuck her (which he did not get to) and she told him about the photos. He came to me and asked to "buy" them, to give back to her, but I knew he wanted them for himself so he could stare at her wide-spread crotch and lust after her. I told him I would not see them, but that he could look at them there. When I showed them to him, he really went ape, and enthused about her big titties and hairy ****. He asked if he could "borrow" them as he went into the bathroom. I knew what he wanted. He went in there and masturbated as he looked at my ex's naked body. I'll admit it excited me too, to know he was wishing he could fuck her. I even called her later and told her she should have given him a fuck, after he came all that distance.
