Fucking married women.

I noticed the discussion between Hugh_36 and hikingchik that had gotten away from the theme of this thread. Most other posters have endorsed the rush received when having taboo sex with a married women.

In other posts all across the internet I see a lot of comments that parallel chik's comments like "If she/he won't have or has sex elsewhere, divorce him/her." I have to ask why? What would be the point sometimes? Chik questioned the fairness of having a tryst with a married woman. Hugh countered with good comments about staying in a marriage. Chik is right that no marriage is black and white. Here's what I have learned over the years.

When two personalities come together they build a foundation that includes sex and mold that into a lifelong partnership. The relationship ebbs and flows along lifes trails. Each partner takes a different trail that either joins, parallels, or crosses regularly usually intimately. If you have the right partner you want to be with them for the rest of your life trying to make their path yours. You celebrate success and mourn tragedy with them. The bond becomes great between the two. You live life and grow older. As you grow and mature together your lives change. Your paths go in a different direction but may stay close. At some point it becomes a need for you to have that partner in your life and you in theirs. Sex may become a memory along with all of the other memories over the years. Just because the paths may go in a different direction for a short while doesn't mean they cannot rejoin and continue happily to the end of the trail.

My story. My wife cannot have sex anymore. Doctors have told us to not even try intercourse. If you haven't been there you cannot understand how the longing for what a woman provides sexually feels. Yes, she can give me a blow job, hand job, or do any other sex act. But the ultimate feeling for me sexually is when I'm invited into that wet warm vagina. It's a feeling I missed for a very long time. The feeling when I experienced it again is indescribable. It's not my wife's fault, it's not my fault. Her body broke down and she has a boatload of medical issues. She needs me as I am her caretaker. Would I not be a scumbag bastard if I did not do this for her? I need her as she does so many other things outside of sex for me. This can happen where one partner has physical issues and cannot continue as they did when they were young. Chik mentioned fairness. Should those physical issues take away from me my enjoyment and pleasure of that feeling I get when having sex with a woman? No, that would not be fair to me. We have an understanding between us and we are happy that way. I return sated, relaxed, and ready to face the stresses of her physical needs.

Let's put a different spin on this. How about women fucking married men. I'm grateful for them.

 

To be unfaithful? No, you have to be up front and honest about your feelings. What you're missing, how you feel about losing those things that you both enjoyed together. Does that give one partner a legitimate reason to seek what the other can't provide elsewhere? Yes, but they need the consent to do so without interference. If the celibate partner can they will find the relationship may draw closer in most cases. It did for us. I have a lot less resentment given the leeway that I have now than before even though that resentment I had was self inflicted. When I finally came forward with my feelings my spouse encouraged me to satisfy those desires I shared with her.

 

What if she didn't give her consent?

 

If I was asked to do it I most likely would..

 

This is a good tough question. I'll answer with a question. How strong would a relationship be if one partner deprives the other what makes them happy? In a true caring partnership each partner should strive to do what will allow the other to want to be in the relationship. This is all within reason of course (don't cut off the nose to spite the face). So this scenario of not giving consent comes from where? Jealousy, wanting control, expecting ownership, insecurity, trust or lack thereof? These are real emotions the dissenting partner must deal with. Also the lack of consent triggers contrary emotions within the other partner.

So, what may happen then? The contrary partner may go ahead and proceed without consent. The relationship has a breakdown. When it is found out about it further breaks down the relationship which may end, not because of the action, because of jealousy, wanting control, insecurity, the loss of trust, etc. Can the dissenting partner give a valid reason for not consenting to a request? Absolutely. But the dissenting partner has no choice but to accept the other partners decision to either forge ahead or comply.

 

But what would "you" personally have done if she said she didn't like the idea and didn't give you her consent?

 

I will send you a DM answering this so this thread can get back on track.

 

It’s risky that’s for sure. He could find out and want to whoop your ass or worse. Then there’s the other side your old lady finds out. In their anger they end up fucking each other. His wife is done and splits. I mean I’ve messed with married women. I don’t give a shit. One guy was so beta it wasn’t even fun. I’m not in a relationship so either way I win. Call it cruel but I don’t care if I’m breaking up a family. Ain’t my family so they can fuck off.

 

Even a married woman needs some extra loving at times.either sexualy or lovingly.

 

I'm pleasing a married woman at the moment her husband used to drink and was violent towards her. She is getting a divorce and never sees him anymore, she is older than me but she is so happy and we have great sex

 

Found if you know how to talk to them most are open to it. Yeah some have that what I feel is a barrier. Usual I don’t want to hurt him but the idea intrigues her so with enough coaching she’ll eventually do it.

 

I've considered trying to hook up with a married woman in hopes that it would force both of us to be more discreet. I don't want to leave my wife but I still want to have sex to. In a similar vein, porn when women are holding other men's cock with wedding bands and rings in view is hot too.

 

It always see the case that married women come onto me

 

It must be the size of your cock that attracts them

 

Yes, this is So True!

 

I was fucking a guy that we knew. He was Really Good! I fucked him several times before I told him that hubby had wanted me to because hubby knew that he had a Big Cock!

 

Fucking a married woman who is twice your age is a great feeling, especially if she comes back for more

 

You did not have to insult me

 

Fine we beg to differ

 

My wife has had several lovers she has never told me who they are and I 'm fine with it! It makes me wonder which buddy of mine is fucking my wife and frankly it turns me on!