Fuck buddy

Fuck buddies are all well and good until they get into their feelings and want to take things to a more monogamous/exclusive kind of thing...

 

Doublelist works well here. As a bi guy, it doesn't take long to find someone to suck off. Pretty good luck with reciprocation, too. I don't mind blow & go giving only, but getting doesn't hurt my feelings at all.

 

When I was younger and unattached I could've used a FWB in the worst way. I just never knew a girl who needed one. Luckily I don't need one anymore.

 

Had one years ago. Met at the grocery store discussing apples. She made a comment about their size and I countered with a subtle sex comparison. We exchanged numbers and met at a fuck and go a few days later. Our relationship lasted for several years and included her BFF a few times.

 

Yes! I have a friend that visits me regularly and his wife and my husband both have known about it from the beginning!

 

dang!!! LOL good for you! I have quite a few female friends (some single, some married) that I'd love to hear them tell me "If we weren't friends, I'd want you to eat my pussy..." lucky dude! in fact now that you mention it, I think there is more than one that given the right timing and the right amount of booze, I could SO see (or fantaszie about) one of them saying that to me...

 

A couple of things helped me. The first was that she knew that I ate pussy and had asked me if it was true and I didn't lie - I love to eat pussy. The next was her confessing that she'd been with dudes who either didn't eat or just gave it a few licks before slamming the dick in her. On that particular day she was feeling some kind of way having given up the pussy to yet another guy who wasn't going to eat it. Another thing was that I learned she had been asking other girls if I'd ever eaten them and I found this out because my sister told me (and hers was the first pussy I ever ate). I would later think and feel that she needed to be eaten but that damned friends rule was getting all in the way of things so I had two things to prove to her.

The first was that I not only ate pussy but I ate pussy, like I'm chowing down on it like it's my last meal and that I wasn't going to stop until she made me stop. The second was that we could be intimate like that and still be friends. Friends do have sex with each other because if you can't trust your friend, who are you supposed to trust? Who can you trust? Girls loved guys who weren't afraid to eat at the Y and stay down there until she'd had enough; for guys, the word was that if you didn't eat that pussy, someone else could and would so if you wanted to keep her, you'd better eat her.

And when they didn't, I was there to do it for them even if we were friends.

 

I'd love to find a female FB. Now that I'm older, it just seems like it's never going to happen.

 

No luck, it would be fun but not sure how to broach the subject. I can see it being a tricky subject.

 

A seriously tricky subject...

 

I know the feeling

 

Or freak out and turn on your ass because they're afraid someone they know will find out.

 

I have had a FWB for over 40 years.
Both my husband and his wife know about this and we all 4 get along great!

 

I have had other lovers, some I have written blogs about.
Check them out!

 

Yeah, there's that. I don't recall having a fuck/suck buddy who ratted me out because they freaked out but I've had them pull the plug on what we're doing because they're now very afraid that someone they know is going to find out..

 

Living in small town, made it hard to remain discrete. I had 2 different mother in laws of the wife grow suspecious, so stopped seeing them, or arranged to meet out of town.

 

It would be great fun, so many opportunities to try new things without any hang up

 

When I had suck buddies, it was convenient; if we happened to be hanging out and if someone was horny, then dicks got sucked and on with the rest of our day. Sometimes we hung out and no sex happened and that was cool because we understood that we didn't have to do it every time we saw each other and more so when we also had wives to take care of. One buddy was helping me put a new starter on the car and when we broke to get something to drink, um, yeah, what we both had to drink wasn't exactly ice cold, if you catch my drift. Sucked each other off, grabbed a sandwich, went back to working on the car. A shame that he got into his feelings and started making unreasonable demands of my time...

 

Bingo!!!!

 

I wouldn't have a problem finding a fuck buddy, but who has the time to put in. I'm fortunate to share bjs with my buddy , when we go fishing, but thats my only away time. Almost every minute is accounted for. Biggest opportunity would be meeting up for a quicky bj in the home depot lot.