Fuck Buddy Acting Weird?

I've never been in such ridiculous situation. I've met a guy who has a gf and a few fuck buddies. His gf is ok with it.
I had amazing time with him. It looked like we're dated for a month because we walked across the town holding hands, hugging, kissing, talking for hours, ate at the restaurants, and we had great sex. He told me he loved me, compared me to his gf and said I'm the best of his other girls he's with. We messaged each other about things happening in our lives.

Suddenly he said we need a break but we kept in contact once a month. I gave him space and been with other guys and told him about it. He was glad I was having fun.

I missed sex with him so after not seeing him for 5 months I texted to see him. We texted for a week and finally set a date. He wanted it to be in the town instead at his place. He cancelled few times and then he stood me up for a date. He apologised and asked me out again. I invited him at my place but he said he doesn't have time for that.

What on earth is going on with him? He said he's busy but come on, really?

 

well, yea, he has a girlfriend and a few fuck buddies as you said. What makes you think you are special?

 

What? I don't think that at all.

 

What i'm saying is he's probably doing the same thing to all the other girls as well. I wouldn't trust somebody who is a flake and fucking 7 different people at once.

 

Forget him, that's a fb that's controlling, you don't need one of them..
Next time he texts, and asks to see you..turn it around, tell him you will text when you have a slot! That your fb have got you really busy! Lol
Then forget him..

 

I don't care, it doesn't bother me at all. I just want to fuck him.
Such a lame game.
Why would he spent so much time texting me for 5 months? For an ego boost or to keep in the line?

 

it seems to me like someone wanting to keep however many of you hanging on...while he decides and keeps his options open.
If someone is realy into you, there is no wondering..."Does he love me...does he love me not?"
so to speak. I know that you are into him for other reasons due to your own admissions on this thread.

 

I like made up stories on the internet

 

I understand that. But he doesn't have to make any effort to keep me hanging on besides sex. That's why the whole situation is annoying. He's acting like an attention whore.

 

Agree with this 100%

 

Maybe he is looking for a more meaningful relationship than just sex. I don't know. I am not him, nor am I you...Why don't you ask him?

 

maybe he got a job. holding 10 different fuck buddies along with a girlfriend would take up way more time than any employed person could manage.

 

We defined us as fb. It was very clear. He's just acting nuts.

 

He has the same old job.

 

Moonglow's right. The only way to find out if you really need to know, is to ask him. Maybe his girlfriend has decided she wants him all to herself

 

So I asked a friend that has a fb..you want the truth?
Your way down his pack! Your not the best in his list..so you keep getting put to the bottom when the others are available.. move on, your worth more!

 

I know. But I've waisted months in texting him for nothing. He did too. That's just stupid.

 

Months?


Sounds like you are hung up on him, and he probably hasn't bothered replying in months

 

He replied always and wrote a lot more than me and mostly initiated contact. There were hundreds of texts, both ways.

 

Yep she's right again!