and that's prob why you haven't had sex for 8 months I have to be friends (and eventually exclusive friends hah) before I can sleep with somone or else it feels yucky
Sure I understand. It's nice to hear of couples that have been together since high school. Is that you and your family in your sig?
if that was hacker in the pic, he'd probably slap his mum and dad when he found out what they where doing in the background, wouldn't you hacker :X S
lynsey I heard this theory you might be interested in, it doesn't bode well for males, and although I agree with it, I would say there are exceptions the theory is, that who ever you are and whoever your attracted too, women are gentically made up to want to find a good strong gene for the father of their child, so they are always on the look out for the perfect mate for the healthy child and there fore will leave it longer until they are very sure. men on the other hand are gentically programmed to sow their seed as far and wide as possible and so hence the jumping into bed as soon as the woman says yes, and in some cases long before the woman says yes S
maybe but if that is the case I do not like your typical genictically programmed male. I don't like guys who sleep around.
well the key word you used there was 'typical' doesn't society, typically see's the (young) male as sleeping around so much so, that it hate females who sleep around. the male gets a slap on the back, the female gets called a slut. also as the theory goes, its ment to influence the discisions of everyone, even women who do not want kids will be drawn to the partner who they feel will be a good gene pool provider and because its in the gentic makeup that works also if SHE is attracted to a SHE. have you also noticed that the porn industry does better with porn aimed at males, males tend to be more visual where as females get turned on by the whole package, personnality etc, which backs up the gene theory S
Whats your take on it Samhain? If you had two children of the opposite sex that were both 18+ and both slept around alot, how would you feel about both of them individually?
thats a very interesting question, I haven't got children so I actually can only guess. I'm not morally against casual sex, providing both partners are respectful, I would hope that a condom was being worn as anyone of any sexuality can catch an std and you can't tell, if someone has hiv just by looking at them. so if they're being sensible I'd probably still be worried, but hell I moved out when i was 18 so i feel that 18+ your old enough to make your own minds up. i hope i would be sensible enough about going on enough about safer sex when they where growing up so they would be more careful. this is a bit sexist but i would probably be more worried about a daughter, cause she could be saddled with a kid at an early age, men can and do just walk away S
thats fair enough, but name any type of relationship, including family and friends that hasn't got the capacity to cause problems S
^thats way i avoid people as a rule i have my few close friends, my husband, my mom and i dont involve anyone else because people suck
That's like my hubby and I. Except I made him wait almost a whole year. Poor guy, he was in pain, I know he was.
In my experience, a man and a woman can rarely be fuck buddies for long. Eventually one wants a relationship. If both don’t, that pretty much ends it. I’ve had a male fuck buddy for years. Sometimes we have sex 2 or three times a week. Sometime it’s months between. Just depends on work schedules. I thoroughly enjoy having sex with him but neither of us have any emotional attachment.
I have a couple. One's married. The other has an on and off boyrfriend. Both see multiple men. It's nearly always sex but it's also nearly always catching up, laughing, having a meal and a few drinks. Then sex of all kinds. Sometimes sexting too. If any of us get busy, the other understands. The relationship is not meant to be on a schedule or even on demand. Just the knowledge that you're friends and you stay in touch but if you decide to get together, there will be great sex. Yes, it could get complicated but we really don't have high expectations aside from the fun part. So far, I've we've not had any emotional strings to deal with except once when one of my friends mentioned that her girlfriend wanted to meet me and she would prefer to not bring her girlfriend into it. I was a little disappointed because I still want a double blowjob before I get too old for one and I thought my chances were good but that's what she preferred and I'm just happy that she's still seeing me after a few long years.
