From "bottom" to "top"/from "top" to "bottom"

Just curious to see how many guys here have started out as a "top", and later discovered they preferred to "bottom".

Or, how many "bottom" guys have later experimented and found they really enjoyed "topping"?

Also, guys who get equally turned on by both "topping" and "bottoming".

Your experiences/preferences?

 

I do preferred to "Bottom", as for topping another person, it really never worked for me. Sure it nice and tight but it just does not do it for now, at lease if I meet some I would try to pleasure him or her.

 

In between... I want both for now, never bottomed before, not no deal breaker. Oh well

 

I've always been a bottom and that's never gonna change. I've never had the desire to top another guy. I even bottom for my wife and her strap on sometimes

 

Well, at least you KNOW what you WANT, ALL of the time, with NO variations!

 

From the beginning, I've always been versatile. Among my male friends I grew up having sex with, it was only fair: If you suck my dick, I suck yours; if I fuck you, you get to fuck me. We reveled in it and if you weren't of a mind to play fair, then you couldn't hang out with us - and the only exception was the one very gay guy who was, in today's terms, 1000% a bottom and who would gleefully take us all on. It wasn't until I got into my late teens that I ran into this top and bottom stuff - and learned that there's no real fairness in any of this but, yeah, who said that life is fair? I know that all of us tried being on the top or the bottom and many of us found which thing worked the best and gave the most satisfaction... but I've always been versatile because it doesn't make sense not to be versatile and limiting myself to a predetermined sexual role - tops do this or don't do that; bottoms do this or they don't and, sure, personal preference and all that. I get it and respect it... but I'm not about being in a role: I'm about having sex and that means doing whatever is called for and for the pleasure to be as mutual as possible; I get enough of one-sided sex from women.

If you don't suck cock, um, why don't you? Not of a mind to top a guy or to bottom? Why not? Is it better to give head than to receive? I never thought so; giving and receiving just works... because why wouldn't it? And, finally, why in the world would you even want to put limits on your sexual pleasure by only being a top or a bottom? Not saying that all bi guys should be versatile but it's a question I've found to be of great interest among a lot of men - and some of the answers I've gotten have been even more interesting and insightful.

 

In the first two years, I was in the bottom, then I tried the top (anal). Usually I was the bottom with the older boys, I was the top with the younger boys, it was rarely the other way around.

 

I'd become aware of a pecking order in this. The guys with the bigger dicks did the topping; smaller dicks - fat kids, "ugly ones," did all of the cocksucking and taking it in the ass and, yeah, whoever was the oldest got to fuck and the younger person got fucked. And this didn't count the bullies who'd want you to suck them off or to cum in your ass "to teach you a lesson" or some other bullshit like that so they could hide their own need for M2M sex.

 

I've always been a Top when I was with women. But when I think about having sex with Men, I am a Bottom. The thing that drew me to Same Sex experimentation was that I want to experience giving oral and receiving anal.

 

I don't know about anyone else, but I grew up with guys who "did it all" and then settled into what they liked and just wouldn't do whatever it was they didn't like. Like I said, we'd suck and fuck each other with a great deal of equality but over time, some guys would say that they didn't like to suck or be sucked; or they'd rather fuck than to be fucked and we all just learned what worked the best for us in this... except versatile guys like me because it didn't matter if we topped or bottomed... as long as sex was happening and nuts were going to be busted. It didn't mean that if you were a top that I would automatically bottom for you... because I like to top, too. Or if you were a bottom, eh, maybe I don't feel like fucking - maybe I just want us to suck each other off a couple of times. I'd learn what I liked and didn't and just like everyone else did but it had nothing to do with adopting being a top or a bottom. Sure, I get turned on either way... because, duh, it's sex and if you're not turned on by this, well, not sure what to tell you...

 

Same

 

My first experience was very vers. Stroking, sucking and fucking each other all summer long. Tit for tat. He sucked me and I would return the favor and so on.

 

My first experience was bottom. In the first 3-4 years, I was more of a bottom, after that I was more of a top. I was more of a top with those younger than me, I was more bottom to those older than me.

 

"Top" OR "bottom"........a HOT and HEADY time will indeed enjoyed by both participating parties!

 

I always was a take-charge top with women. With men, I'm a submissive bottom. I want to experience everything I use to dish out.

 

Same. But nor the take charge type, but definitely topping. Over time, I fam that I can be versatile with a guy. I would enjoy bottoming more than topping.

 

With women I tend to be a bit dominant. I don't know if that counts as a top. But with men I seem to be quite easily bottom. I am not sure if I had a younger and smaller male companion. That might change things a little.

 

I started at the bottom, a few months later I became top. I enjoy both, but I've been the bottom several times. It depends on the partner.

 

I've yet to have an experience, but my desire is to be a bottom, especially while orally servicing my wife so she can watch

 

I enjoy being both a top and a bottom. I love having a pair of lips around my dick, feeling a tongue rubbing it and having the person suck really hard as I cum. By the same token, I love the feeling of a hard cock sliding in and out of my mouth, the pulses as he cums and the texture and taste of his cum.

When it comes to fucking, as a top I enjoy the feeling of the head of my dick rubbing against his prostate and his ass muscles squeezing my dick as I cum. When being a bottom, the sliding of his dick in and out, the stimulation of my prostate and the pulsating of his dick on my prostate as he cums feels fantastic. I enjoy being both. It provides a wider range of pleasure.