Hi guys. I need some help I'm so confused. There is a woman I work with, I never believed in just clicking with someone but I do with her. She is amazing. The problem is she is married but the marriage is over, she has kids so they live together still. I don't know whether she feels the same as me. I see signs she might be into me, she will always try and talk to me when I pass by her desk, she touches me on the arm and hands when we talk, prolonged eye contact, she tries to do little things that would help me, sticks up for me.... Basically she acts differently to me than others. We had a convo today that confused me. She said that when she was younger she had a gay best friend who really fancied her but she wasn't into that. Then she said that she has always said that when she gets a divorce she will be with a woman as they are on the same wavelenght. Then she said something along the lines of being shocked when she sees gay men kissing but she doesn't know why as she is cool with it. The day before this she said she wanted to see people but her culture didn't allow it- I thought as she said people rather than men that there could be hope. I'm not sure if we are just close friends or there could be the possibility for more??
faint heart never won fair lady. just go carefully and slowly, but you never know what's around the corner.
Hey silk896 thanks for the reply. I thought about it more and wondered if she was confused as she has never been with a woman before but I get the idea she likes me. I'm going to keep on going, but slowly as you say
Hmm I think I got my answer today. I was stood with another colleague and my crush said we both looked hot today unlike my mum (she was referring to herself) so I'm thinking she is fond of me in that way
