ok fuckit im asking this girl out tonight since its st patricks day, maybe the luck of the irish will be on my side!
Dude i have it like this so bad right now. THis girl ive known for about a year used to like me and everything and i liked her, but she also liked my friend and they ended up dating. Anyway they broke up pretty recently, like a month or so ago, and weve been hanging out much more together. She usually calls me like 5 times a week to hang out. Ive always been attracted to her but just recently ive started to think about her more and more and its kinda getting to me. It doesnt change the things we do, we still talk alot and shit but these past few days i cant get her out of me head. I dont want to ruin a great friendship so im going to just let it flow. I dont even know why i started thinking about her more often. But yeah im just going to let whatever happens happen. Thanks everyone for sharing. Alot of these stories are pretty similar to mine.
i`ve only ever cared about people when i`ve been `inlove` with them. but, there`s one person that i could never be inlove with, that i have been close to. the feelings were strong.. peculiar for me. i miss him.
great friendships lead to loving committed relationships,who you fall in love with should be determined by how tremendous your friendship is. and what person better to fall in love with than your best friend? love grows from friendships.
Me and my other half were best friends for 3 years before we got together. Long story really but a cute one My older brother and my bro below me use xbox live, and got talking to him on there. I saw my bro talking 2 him on webcam a few times but never really thought anything of it, although he saw me walk past in a short top once and asked about me (apparently) lol Anyway..! I asked my bro to download me a song, but he wouldnt! grr! So Mark did and emailed it to me.. and i added him to msn to say thanks.. And we got talking. For months and months we sat up til about 4am just talking. Getting to know each other, and we found out we're so similar! Families, ex's, past experiences etc. After a few months i could see myself beginning to like him... He lived in Holland at this point (yes.. he's dutch!) I told him i liked him... but he said "it's complicated"... and never let on as to whether he liked me or not. But i couldn't get over him! I tried dating other guys but always thought about him, wanted him etc. So i tried again.. he was on msn drunk once and we ended up having a rather saucy conversation. but still got " i'm sorry but it's complicated" bla bla bla... He came over and stayed with me and my bro one time for a night. We got on really well, but i had a bf at this point (one of his mates, that he had hooked me up with!) Purely because he thought i could do a lot better than him! (grrr.... if only he knew lol) So after being turned down the 2nd time, i told myself it was the last time. And i gave up on him, but i realised i had fallen in love with him... I thought about him constantly! After about a year since i told him last, i met a lovely guy called Paul. Who i did also fall for... I thought i had forgotten about Mark at this point. Until he came online one time and apologised for brushing me off everytime.. saying that he had been scared of admitting feelings because he'd be shat on before (so badly that he'd been single for 6.5 years!) and so he'd run away and hidden under a rock! lol He saw emotion and ran a mile basically. Me and Paul were on the verge of splitting, we'd had a lot of problems.. he did my head in!!!! hahaha (although we're still friends) ANYWAY! (Mark had moved to england at this point) Mark told me he had liked me all along! And he never used "luv ya" or "xxx" in messages, texts, emails etc but he started using them. Then a few weeks after he told me.. he told me he loved me! *shocked* (me and paul had split by this point) So we met up.. after weeks of texting, phone calls etc.. and we're happier than i thought we could ever be! 4 months down the line now... and still going strong. He's my best friend, my boyfriend and even my soul mate..... We're going back to Holland in august for me to meet his parents **gulp**! So i will always stick by the fact that the best relationships are those that started out as friends first! (sorry if i bored anyone!!!! hehehehe )
