friends of the opposite sex when wankin it

why do you keep calling me fat?

 

Yeah, I think it'd be wierd to think about my girlfriends sister while wankin' it, simply because she's 8 oh and the other one is a ogre-like chick. :x I think my gf was adopted xD

 

everybody is being assholes, I decided to jump in.

 

well thanks ass,

and for the record im pretty sure his world does revolve around that, but ive never known a time when being sexually attracted to a chick is bad..

guess your gf is the twig type, sorry for you.

 

That'd be narsty.

Although, I'd never even give a chick over the weight of 150lbs a chance.

 

...okay let me run some measurements pass you and see if you'd be up for it-

Chest - 36D
Waist-31
Hips/Ass-41
Height- 5'4"

sound fat or okay?

 

I'm not good with numbers.

Also, I'm not a boob guy, I'm an ass guy, idk why but I love a thick ass. So saying you have a 'fatass' wouldn't be an insult right?

 

lmao exactly my point, i have a big butt, big boobs as you can see, and a small waist in proportion, flat (but not muscley tummy lol), and i weigh 150

which is considered actually overweight for my height

 

At that height, it doesn't take much to be considered 'overweight'. The only type of overweight I hate is the kind that cause those narsty health problems.

 

yeah, thats when you know youre too big. or if you look too big lmao.

 

Okay, so you're obviously a romantic. When you have sex, you want certain things, as well you should. You wouldn't want to be made to feel like he was just getting off, if he didn't want to talk, or do the things you like, or... pay any attention to anything but what he wants, when he wants it, the way he wants it. That's what jacking off is for. Sex isn't necessarily a substitute. Sex can be as dissatisfying a substitute for jacking off as masturbation can be a pale substitute for sex.

So why would you begrudge a guy for taking care of that stuff himself, and leaving you out of it, when that's what he has the urge for? Do you think there's something wrong with just wanting to come? Or not wanting to perform for anyone else? As long as it doesn't interfere with him also keeping you happy on other occasions, and he's not cheating with someone else, don't put a guy down for jacking it.

 

okay i never put down a guy for jacking off...i was putting down the idea that the first few posts were claiming that all dudes sit there and jack off while fantasizing about other chicks..including their gf's friends and sisters..
I was merely asking if they were in a long term or actually a monogamous relationship while doing so to...not only another girl..but one that they may see on a daily basis.

and also I do understand the lazy side to self pleasure, and although its not everyones 'cup of tea' i do understand that a very big portion of guys do, do it.

As for me, yes i am a romantic and have traditional morals (no open relationships, not really into the idea of sharing of my guy for 3somes, but between just me and him-i have no sexual inhibitions up). so stating that sex always has to be a certain way..is totally off. Sure once in a while initimate missionary, or face to face position in general is nice..i consider that sex...but i love to fuck too, not just be all lovey dovey and make love.

 

Well, cool. There's nothing wrong with feeling the way you do about sex and monogamy, but there's also nothing wrong with a guy (or a girl) wanting to please themselves sometimes, and think about whatever the heck they want, and get off without having to serve their partner in any way. Those posters are probably right that all guys, including yours, will think about someone other than you from time to time. It's not cheating. Don't be Big Brother and convict him of a thought crime. There's a lot of evidence that fantasy may prevent people from actually doing certain things. Let him have his thoughts and his right hand, and he's more likely to continue letting you have everything else, because you're not his master.

 

^^ you obviously can not comprehend what I say so there's no point in this back and fourth anymore seriously.

I dont understand where I ever said that masturbation was wrong..maybe you should re-read and try again.

 

Are you not saying your man wouldn't fantasize about anyone other than you? And that you'd have a problem with it if he did?

I thought we were communicating okay...

 

Jumping jesus, Christina. Don't flip out here. It's just us guys talking shit, which we are prone to do simply by design.

And no, you're not fat. Quite nice, actually. I don't know where that one poster got the idea that you are.


To add my input to this thread, yes, I do think about other women while wanking. 99.9% of the time it's to a woman I know either personally or through work or whatever. Female friends, a few friend's moms, sister in laws, sister in law's friends, wife's friends, her female cousins...basically the majority of women I know except blood relatives.

No difference between which person's image gives me a greater or weaker orgasm. That's usually dependent on the same old variables of method, angle, position or how long it's been since my last orgasm. Or if I'm using my regular hand or ribbed toy. That ribbed toy, though - damn, that causes me to shoot a massive, almost chunky load.

 

I'm merely saying for some guys its not their thing to jack off at all, just like some guys don't like strippers some love them, some don't like porn most do love it, some love head and can get off on it everytime, some think its boring.
Maybe my boyfriend has fantasized about other girls, but then again he's also told me that jacking off isn't his thing, and i have no reason to not trust him on it.

See, that's what I was trying to figure out..assuming by the "wife's friends" part..that means you actually have a wife, I was trying to figure this out from a not single guy.

And out of curiosity, is that an always thing...fantasizing about other chicks..even if you're completely happy and your wife is still hot? or is one of those things that starts because 'one-gina' syndrome gets boring?

 

Where does that place you and your b/f?

 

^ Yeah, I just love how she considers us guys on here as losers, unlike her godlike amazing boyfriend. xD Haha ohhhh my.

 

Your partner might be different to every other guy, but I'm just letting you know, every other guy isnt going to believe you when you say you never think of anyone else, even if it is somehow true

LOL