When I was in my teens (40 years ago) I had a big time crush on my best friend's mom. I know that is nothing unusual. However I acted out on it in an unusual way. Several times when I was at their house and my friend wasn't home I asked her if she wanted to wrestle. Usually she would just brush it off but a few times she actually said ok. It was no big thing. Would last a very short time and I would always end up pinning her. She'd laugh and say ok let me up and of course I would. Now this was a huge turn on for me. She had these nice 36D breasts and I just got rock hard with my dick only inches from them when I was on top of her. I know it sounds a little far fetched but it actually did happen. All that being said I always had some questions and would like to hear some opinions. Was this something she really wanted to do or was she just humoring a stupid kid? Did she possibly get turned on a little by it? Do you think this was something she shared with other people? If I pursued it (looking back, glad I didn't) do you think it could have went further? Does anyone have a similar experience?
I had something similar when I was about 14. We had female friend of the family who was about 20. She would come to our place a lot and swim in the pool. I liked to try and dunk her because she would always throw her legs open and I could see the outline of her pubes and the hair falling out of each side of her suit. She stayed at our house for a long weekend while my parents were out of town to watch me and my younger siblings. I interested her in a game of barrel of monkeys and the loser had to strip for the other. During this I mentioned about the pool thing. She admitted she knew that was why. Well... being the adult she was and the responsible babysitter.... I'll tell you I won the game but neither of us ever undressed. I guess she just liked playing with my head and fantasies.
Here's what I think was happening with your interaction between you and "best friend's mom". Was this something she really wanted to do or was she just humoring a stupid kid? Both. If she didn't want to she wouldn't have. One thing is she had a good time playing with you and pushing the limits. By allowing you to "pin" her she was providing you, and even herself, with a fantasy fulfilled. She was enjoying the interaction as much as you were but being more mature she knew how far to let it go. Did she possibly get turned on a little by it? This is a definite yes. She was getting real close to a fantasy that many women have and that is to be with a much younger man. Her ego was boosted by your advances but she only let it go so far. Even though she didn't act sexually beyond the wrestling act she was very excited to have you pay attention to her in that way. Did you notice her breasts swell, her nipples harden? Was she flushed in the face? Probably so which indicated her body was reacting to your attention and she was feeling sexual towards you or the situation at hand. Do you think this was something she shared with other people? Absolutely not. There is no way she would have done so. The repercussions of interacting with an underage boy would have been devastating for her. It was the 80's and pedophilia was punished severely as it is today. No, the interaction with you was kept to herself even if you were of consensual age. It could be she used this as stimulus when having sex with others but to reveal the source of her experience wasn't going to happen. It remained a private moment just between you and her. The big risk she took was trusting you never spoke of it either. If I pursued it (looking back, glad I didn't) do you think it could have went further? That's quite possible. Many older women, mothers, have taken a son's friend sexually. When having her pinned had you expressed a further desire such as leaning in for a kiss she may have reciprocated and taken things further. Having a young boy paying attention to her was a boost for her libido. I'm sure she loved the attention but didn't push it. If you had, the outcome may have been different. Then again she may have held her ground and rejected any advances beyond the wrestling act. That would have been her understanding and fear of what might happen if discovered. As it was she was taking a big risk with the interaction already. To go further and have sex with you may have been something she would later regret. Does anyone have a similar experience? I do not. None of my friends mothers were attractive to me. They were just so an so's mom. Not much different than my own sweet mother who I adore as . . . . . Mom.
Thank you very much for the we'll thought out reply. I know on at least one occasion I believe her nipples did harden. She had on a white top and I could definitely see them sticking out. Not sure if her face ever went flush but it's possible. Again, thanks for the response.
