Friends as abusers?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by love riot, May 16, 2007.

  1. love riot

    love riot Member

    I've been very good friends with this one girl for a couple of years now. We've pulled each other through everything, and have always been there for each other. But recently she's been distant and turned manipulative and plays very bad head games. I come from a small town and it's hard to distance yourself from anyone you've been friends with for a long time. Any advice?
     
  2. Brand New Soul

    Brand New Soul Senior Member

    I had a friend like this I was lucky enough to have moved away, she moved as well further away. I basically told her what she did to me and how I felt.
    I think you should tell her how you feel, dont be rude about it. And just let everything go..no doubt she will say some nasty things. Just ignore them dowt fight over it. I Know what its like in a small town (argghhh) I currently live in one. All I can say is do you best to avoid her. and stick to your guns. Good luck.
     
  3. mlee27

    mlee27 Member

    no town is too small to distance yourself from an asshole. distance them from your mind and not miles.you will be fine.
     
  4. hippie_chick666

    hippie_chick666 Senior Member

    Good advice everyone! Keep yourself busy with other friends and/or a job. Maybe do volunteer work. Just keep away b/c she'll lose interest if you ignore her. Good luck!

    Peace and love
     

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