I have a good friend (Jane) and I also have a very close boy friend (M.). I never tried to force them to be friends but eventually they come in contact and they fight like six year olds. It is to the point I cry because all I hear is bad stuff about the other person from both of them. I feel like I am caught in the middle and I try to tell them to be mature about everything but it is not working. They don't have good reasons to hate each other except that Jane is racist and because of that makes racist and stupid comments to M. Obviously he gets angery, but I have asked him to be mature and let it go and then I have to go tell Jane she is going to far. AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH (ok I need that scream)! Anyway how can I be friends with both without feeling like I am caught in the middle of a war? Any ideas are much welcomed.