Four main misconceptions about open relationships that I keep hearing

LOL, one guy plays with your pee pee, and all of a sudden you are Peace, Love and carefree

Wasnt really meant as an attack on you, more your wife ( i know you are supposed to defend her and all or whatever), I think I read up on poor little jacobklein in This thread, then your post and got me angry, controlling iittle goldigging bleep bleeps. If it was real life I'd shout either of you three asian girls at once as punitive damages for the years of pain and suffering

 

LOL, what can I say. Erm, testosterone has that effect on me...It was two guys, BTW.

 

A small degree of benign (meaning not inspiring violent crimes of passion) jealousy can be good for a relationship...especially if it is one that has endured many years. It sparks your heart out of the 'taking him/her for granted' mode.

 

Another one I seem to notice a lot is the idea that open relationships means frequent one-night stands, with orgies left and right; partners only see each other in the morning.

 

This, this is what I'm here to find out more about. What it would actually be like to be in love with someone, but actually be able to explore our natural desires.

My wife thinks that if I'm aloud to explore my urges, I might turn into another person!