Found out my girl is talking to another man

Yeah, i have treated her bad in the past.
so i went to her house and we began talking and i found out she also told him "i wish i had someone to cuddle with" after that, i told her it wasnt going to work out. she began crying and shaking for a while and eventually i gave in and told her we should work things out and try to have a healthier relationship. we cried for quite some time and then we began talking about the incident again. it turns out she was lying about details the whole time. i then became extremely upset that she was still lying to me when i had literally just taken her back. after this i began questioning her about all sorts of things having to do with that kid. she lied to me about 20 times before she finally told me most of the truth..changing the story around each time.

i gathered my things and told her all i wanted from her was honesty, and she could not fulfill that, even after i had just taken her back. so.. i rode home and said goodbye. she fucked the second chance up within 2 hours. i was over the fact that she had done that.. the lying was just to much to handle. her word was destroyed

 

Sounds Like You Made The Right Decision...

Don't Throw Yourself Into Another Affair Whils't Your On The Rebound,

And Don't Worry Yourself Sick, Your Health And Mental Wellbeing Are

The Most Important Things In Your Life Right Now....

I Hope You Find True Happiness In The Future....



Cheers Glen.

 

sorry that there's no happy ending here. Even when relationships end, I always hope for an amicable seperation. Looks like that might not be possible.

Hope this turns out for the best.

 

The shedding of a source of worry and concern can be reason to be happy. It's how one treats the situation that makes it a happy or unhappy experience.

 

Personally, I think you sound like a bit of a tool

All that just sounds like trying to pay back the anger she caused you. You complain about her looking elsewhere whilst she complains about cuddle attention 1 + 1 = 2. Maybe this was just all to cover up that you just werent into her

I didnt see the school thing before, but if this is a high school drama, then come on dude, most high school "relationships" dont last a semester.


And they talk, yeah her other female friends are going to get the claws out on the subject of infidelity, but they're also going to raise eyebrows when they hear you werent putting out or are the no affection guy. You probably just seriously damaged your game with any other girl you both remotely know

Everyone gets affected by jealousy at different strengths, a bit is a good thing, but too much and it ends up coming back and biting you in the arse

 

a girl that does that instead of talk to you and be honest isn't going to work out. you made the right decision. i know exactly how you feel, so i can't tell you it's going to be easy to move on.

my recommendation: breath, drink some water, eat something healthy, work out, breathe some more.

you'll be stronger when you get through this. better than staying with her and always wondering if she's telling the truth, feeling the need to ask her the same question several times, etc.

 

Not that it's easy, but atleast you have closure.

 

Bro.. you don't even know me. i was with her for a year and 4 months and i felt the need to leave because she couldnt be honest with me about what she had done and the fact that she did what she did. i didnt even want to leave her. i told her we could fix things and work shit out, but then she went on a crazy lying spree. and ive been out of high school since i was 16 (im 18)

 

put it in her ass one good time then leave her. that's my advice

 

So that's all it takes? You date someone for a year and four months and some random girl sends you a fb request and tells you a bunch of things and you take her word over your gfs? It could just be bullshit. When I was dating a new boyfriend, my ex boyfriend (Under a different username) messaged him on facebook and tried to ruin it for me. (Because he's a vindictive little ****). Anyways, my boyfriend didn't take it seriously. Which was...pretty cool. (I dumped him afew weeks later anyways) but! the moral of this story is that you should take everything other people say with a grain of salt. Meaning, don't believe everything you hear. Give her a chance.

 

don't read the thread or anything

 

This has gotta be the biggest load of crap and is hardly relevant...

 

She admitted to doing it, according to the op

 

Dump her and move on. She shouldnt of continued to text the guy even if he text her first. Any reasonable committed person would not of continued the texting and calling. She admitted she did what she did, might feel hard to let her go now but just break all contact and find another women.

 

this all comes down to the fact that she is not 100% down for you. She has been emotionally and basically sexually unfaithful to you. How much more do you need to take before you kick her ass to the curb?

 

^but he should do her in the ass one good time before he does, right?

 

Well at least you have you dignity, oh wait...

 

yea i thought that part was a little gay too

 

oh, thanks 0.o

guess i should have left that part out haha. a little to personal apparently

 

Oh, now that I actually know what's going on (ffs), i'd say find some new poon tang.

P.S the fact you hugged a tree is one of the sexiest things ever.