Married nearly 25 years and sex for us has always been pretty good. There have been periods when either illness, injury or life has just got in the way but during those times, more often than not, whoever isn't either horny or able will still help out while the other is masturbating. Works for us but being open each other is the key.
Used to have a good sexual relationship. Highs and lows over the course of 25 years. Now with some medical issues we do not have sex anymore. Was just physical things for her but now… let’s just say it’s complicated
My wife and I's story is a lot like the others. I have been married 38+ years. Early on the sex was more often, but as kids came that slowed down. Then with menopause it stalled even more. Now she has some helath issues that meansd it happens even less now. She is still interested in sex, just not as often as before. you have to adjust. We are both happy together and when I am not getting it as often as I would want I masturbate. Plus being naked around the house and backyard all the time helps. She knows that and doesn't have an issue with it. It works for us.