For all you fools havin girl problems...

and as for this 'which one is racist' shit

are we not all racist by 'separating people by their race' simply by identifying their race?
racism is not a problem - it is natural, inevitable, and inescapable (at least it is until we all blend) -- discrimination is a different issue



and rasp, he never brought up race, you did (I reread this whole damn thing looking for where he brought race into it too, damn you :tongue: )
but really, stop being so defensive and think about that a little

maybe you experience discrimination a lot (and judging by the way you talk/type, and the population of this forum, your probably do) but that doesn't mean you should use your race against everyone you get into an argument with (doesn't seem like something one proud of their heritage would do...)

 

i thinlk ypou people need a litle language adaptation. language severly limits us and brings problems. May i introduce the term "ratialism"? Its different than "rascim". Racialism, while natural, is suspect and needs to be checked , but "Rascism "is something that we must all avoid even if not entirely possible. I think what ducky meant was "racialism". check your dictionary.

 

dictionary.reference.com:
"a. An emphasis on race or racial considerations, as in determining policy or interpreting events.
b. Policy or practice based on racial considerations."
definently not.

for racism, the definition I saw, and adopted is no longer listed

Wikipedia says:
"The term racism may apply to any belief whose primary basis is the concept of race, a social construct with no scientific basis"


these things are always tough, sicne dictionaries don't tend to agree
but the general concensus, after reading through a few is that racism involves one race being superior to another
hmmm
we should just coin a phrase for 'someone who recognizes differences in races but doe snot think they are superior' cause there doesn't seem to be one =P

 

There was an edit in babylons post, that is why you cant decipher white racism. Dont point that fuckin finger my way homie... Like I already told 'Homeschool' because his post was manipulated, everything you have to say on the subject is therfore irrelavant.

 

why is that?

 

Ask yourself.

 

myself does not know why you think my opinion is irrelevant
myself told me to ask you

 

...........

 

I have a questions for you... Why post on an open forum if you don't want other people to read your posts and comment? I mean, that is what a forum is about conversation... If other peoples points of view don't matter than why post or even talk to any one?

 

hmm
fair enough

that's pretty fucked up of him, in that case, if it is true (not saying it isn't, but I don't wanna assume such a thing based on circumstantials)

all races have their good points and bad points
and to all the people who tend think all blacks are glock-totting, rap-spitting, chicken-eating thugs
go to Africa.

 

in this case they don't (because fo the edit), he didn't say they never do

get off his ass already

 

Peoples opinions do matter... Without a doubt. Its those who get hostile, are those who I refer to... Because there just getting laughed at.

 

Hmmm... The questions wasn't adressed to you.... and I didn't know what you mean by get off his ass.

 

Thats fare.

 

people here know me they know i never edit my posts i speak from my heart & just put it all out there if i do edit its to add to it & i allways put

edit:
& everything id add would be added
i never go back & chabge anything or correct spelling because none of that matters when u speak from the heart spelling & grammer are irrelevant to expression of ideas
you attack race spoelling grammar everything ofcourse except what u cant attack or deffend against
read what you wrote again & think about it
dont you see the sexism & racism, hatred mistrust & odvios disrespectfullness in every word you say? you accuse me of racism when i dont give a shit what race ya are it dont matter all that matters is your very sexist close minded & shallow in your views & its very odvios your quit unhappy in your relationships with women, but it doesnt have to be that way, adjust your perception.. wipe away all the crap your dad screwed into your head, learn to respect & get over yourself
havent you noticed that you tried chasing everyone who responded out of "your thread"
you posted this for a reason what was the reason? theres no way it was meant as serius relationship advice, was it a cry for help? were u begging some1 to slap some sence into you?

 

This is really too low, the guy is 19 most probably a virgin, unless he fucked the cat, know nothing about relationships, never got one himself, is dead scared of talkingt o women, know as much about htem as munk from middelage knew abotu the concept of "women", is dead borred at the time, and yeah try to get smart.

I was unsurprised but suddendly understanding to see that all those who posted the worse and unusefull stuff in my threads are also those who agreed with the guy and callied him their guru, and said as absurds and bs stuff here as they did in mine.

The main thing here si that you are making generalisations and humans are humans, each of them is an individual and a complex one and nothign is more complex that relationships between humans, and you cant just categorise like that.
What you use here can only go for some soap level series, but can aply to the rest of the population.
I am sure it apply to those with your level of consciousness, but fail for all the others..
What count most in a relationship is love and chemistry, how you relate. And relating as you do is to lie to oneself and to the other, to leave constantly in an illusion, in a fake world made of cheating and degradating views.
Your description reveal htat you are afraid to be cheated on, and that it preoccupy you a lot. Did that cat run with a passing by garfield?
Who do what with whom is the central matter in all you say.
You have to learn honnesty and love. Thats all. To be open to the other and to get rid of all your prejudices and your distorded conceptions of the worls and of women and humans at large.
And probably too your idea about yourself.
Might take you a life time to learn or shorter if you begin today.

Good luck with it.

 

ohhhh & rasprohesy if i edited out such racism im sure you remember what it was? come on enlighten us please

 

why did you say that. that i posted unusefull ? I was trying to be helpfull like others helped me. that hurt me.like i said. if he liked you he'd be on you like stink on shit.Stop all contact NOW!

 

Yes... I remember exactly what it was you edited out, hip-hop, ghetto ass nigga... enlighten yourself.

 

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