I was wondering if guys would be happy to be seen flaccid in public or if you would prefer to be seen semi hard? Personally while not very big I'm happy to be seen in any state
I don;t mind being flaccid but I'm not sure there's much choice in that. Either the anticipation of joining others when I'm nude (usually friends [clothed], so far), or knowing they'll be nude and what I'm going to see, gets me semi-hard at least. When I say semi-hard I mean he's fuller and longer than when flaccid and may or may not have begun to lift.
I've had several occasions where I was nude in front of others, friends and strangers. There is a rush of anticipation, not knowing what the response is going to be, but I've always found it impossible to say no to the opportunity. Responses have usually been positive, some individuals have been a little less than kind, but overall great experiences. Walking into a room while flaccid, when everyone else is clothed can be very difficult. If everyone is nude, not as difficult but still a challenge, at least for me. I'm average build and size, always aware that I'm not well hung which is of course a societal pressure. Thinking about this has made me really want to do this again.
I don't mind my self but have had one or two nasty comments when camming nude with people, my friend has a real hangup about it, and has to be semi hard before he feels comfortable with anyone seeing his penis if he doesn't know them intimately
It can be very difficult to expose yourself to scrutiny when naked, especially with strangers. Its also such a rush. As previously stated I'm average looking at best, doing this in front of attractive men and women I am feeding my own fears, but most of the time the resulting comments have been positive.
At the gym shower I'm soft and pretty much stay that way, even in the sauna. Admittedly, if a buddy of mine and I talk about having gotten laid recently, I start getting hard. He just laughs at me
C'mon guys. Veronika is a male pretending to be a mom troll. Pay no attention. Think, who would really post pictures of their son's cock in 4 different posts within 10 minutes of each other and then ghost?
Okay, my flaccid cock looks just as nice as it does in any state of erection. It is part of my body and much like the rest of me it is what it is. To be able to be seen in public without clothes or admonishment because I'm nude is a wish that may never come true. Only because too many people cannot accept the human body is just that. What wearing clothes does is sexualize it. So flaccid to full erection I prefer to be nude wherever I am.
At home nudity is the norm. Outside in the backyard, weather permitting, were naked. Neither of us has tanlines most of the year. Soft or hard, it just feels great having my penis free of textiles.
Personally, I don't mind being seen in public in any stage of arousal, but I do think I have a very nice looking flaccid penis!!
As a kid I cared less who saw me soft or hard. Most of my adult life I was only slightly more concerned when hard. Now in my senior years I care less who sees me soft and as for family and friends of all ages both male or female doesn't bother me. But a stranger would. Mostly out of consideration to them not me.
I was in a sex shop in Bournemouth recently and they had loads of dildos all different shapes and sizes. However there was one range that was what I would call flaccid. They were not hard enough to be insertable. Although you could certainly practice blowjob skills with them. It did make me wonder why someone would want a flaccid dildo to play with, but there is a desire for it, otherwise they wouldn't make these.
I would add that when Im in the gym and naked in the changing rooms I do try to achieve a bit of a semi so i appear bigger. I keep myself shaven these days which does help but I do see much bigger than myself in there, so I do feel the need to catch up slightly.
Such a shame that men have to struggle through life with this insecurity. I like to think that I have moved beyond that. I have been told that I have a very nice looking penis and that it's a nice size (7.5 inches). Even though it serves me well and has satisfied quite a few women, deep down inside I still wonder what it would be like to have a bigger penis. They say variety is the spice of life, but wouldn't it be nice if all males penises were the same size? That way men could go through life with one less insecurity. To some, this is a very serious and sometimes debilitating insecurity.
As an old hippie, I have no issue with people seeing me naked in any state. In the late 60s, I did a lot of skinny dipping with friends and with other hippies at festivals and boogies and saw men's cocks in all sizes and states. Like I feel about women's breasts and figures, what difference does size truly make? We're all different.