First time

Hi, married,straight but curious.
I'm not really attracted to men or the thought of a relationship with one just the sexual experimentation or experience.
At 48 I have long been attracted to hurt play but never hooked up with a man or had opportunity to do this discreetly.
Open to mmf or ffm threesome experience or just mm hookup
Hoping to discuss this openly or read of others fun times.
Maybe it's fantasy, curiousity or a link I'm missing out on something.
I find it hard to get hard after penetration of but plug small dildo etc, frustrating.
I m open to sucking a cock but would shy away from the cum.
I would like to be fucked for the experience, kind of hoping a guy will fuck me then suck me off sometime.
It's gotta worth a go others are doing it

 

Well, I hope this is not too much information but I'm not sure what you are into.
I did actually go masturbate , shower then I inserted a fairly large butt plug that has a large bulb at the start. I'm walking around the house with it in, things to do.
Do people do this? How long should I keep it in will do any damage?
Can you train you ass to be better at taking insertables and cocks does it get easier?

My wife is at work, I will get her up for sex after she showers, I've been suggesting she is due for anal, it's a rare treat but her taking me is rarer.

I'm happy for her to use my ass, I just want her to take it at will and get off on it. It's not like I don't tamper with her's.

I often talk about fucking her in the ass mostly dirty talk. I wash it in the shower for a feel, poke the tip of a finger or thumb in it during sex but it's hard to get her to take the lead on using mine. I'm craving it!

Is the next logical step ohh shit he's closet Gay, I have not been with aan yet but I'm not opposed to experimenting and open to saying it here but what do people make of it?

Having an experience is definitely a thing, turning hay I don't see I would that's not what I desire I find so many women attractive but would hookup with a bloke, maybe a younger man and hopefully he is attractive but I don't have a type or a genuine look or emotional attraction to men.

Sex is sex and I'm looking for conversation or suggestions. Looking for sex too but this is a start.

Been called in on a job , I'm removing the but plug so I don't get caught with my pants down.

 

I was thinking some more and while I won't talk sex around friends I am anonymous here so I guess it's ok to talk about stuff.
I have told my wife my plan to take her in the ass again soon.
Sometimes I wash hervass in the shower then rim her as a part of the session to follow, she knows it's coming and I like to lick that soft smooth little while.

What I have told her is I plan to start with that very same way washing her, picking it deep as I can go slowly starting to finger her ass and lube it getting maybe 2 fingers in her ass and fingering it to loosen it well. Then I hope I am hard and ready or she will have to take my coach in here mouth to make it stiff as it goes and then I will proceed to fuck her ass slowly, I will keep going maybe tipping lube on my shaft midway so I can start to fuck harder and quicker, then I will explode in her ass slowing the rhythm until I remove it. I'm not warming up her pussy or teasing it she is overdue for an ass fuck and that's what I would like to do.
If she likes she can reverse roles and take me first, I would gladly let her do all of the same things. She does not have a strap on and I'm not sure she would be into it,bit is rare for her to initiate ass play on me or take to me with a decent Dildo. I wish she would I am open to it and she is free to have her turn on me if she sees fit, she has been fucked in the ass by me but I have not experienced taking a cock or much ass attention from her, hence reading and writing here where people have had opportunity to act out with partners and others.

 

I fantasized for many years...what it would be like to experience a cock other than my own.
Maybe it was an epiphany of sorts...but one day I came to the realization that sex is sex! Why not throw caution to the wind and just move forward with what I had always wanted...to at least try it.
To me, I didn’t have any reason not to. I wasn’t concerned about going through with it and then afterwards feeling like “Oh no, what have I done!” “Now I’m....GAY!!” Not at all...

I love women. I love having sex with women...but now...I have discovered a whole new range of sexual pleasure that I can explore and really enjoy...because to me...it’s just sex. Enjoy it for what it is.

 

I'm thinking the same way but I'm not sure who or where or how.

 

I discovered my self by going to where people are many people, bars, swimming pools neighbor hood clubs and even the library!
Mingle with people even if you don't know them you be surprise the out come!

 

I had the exact same dilemma.
How does a straight guy go about hooking up with someone to experience sex with a cock...when you are not part of the “community?”

Personally, I am not “out” and don’t care to be...so going to a gay bar was out of the question, and I couldn’t conceivably come up with an answer on where to even begin.

I ended up hiring an escort.
At that time I wanted a cock...but I didn’t want a man...so I hired a really pretty MTF Trans girl. I met her at her apartment and she led me upstairs to her bedroom.
There was no dating involved, no going to bars, no expectations and she knew what I wanted.
That was the first time I ever sucked a cock and I loved it.
Later on...I let a different trans girl take my anal virginity. She was really nice and I felt really good talking to her. I told her I was a virgin and she said she would love to be my first...so I let her fuck me. It was great... and I had no regrets.

Like I said before...it’s just sex.

 

Trans girls are my preference really.
As mentioned before, I love women...and T girls are soft, smooth, pretty, smell wonderful and they have delicious cocks!

 

Styx, I have considered a trans escort for the bottom experience. Before prostate cancer, I was a top. Now I'm curious about the other side. I like titties and cocks and a trans woman would be ideal. Most of the ads near me the escorts brag about their size and being a virgin I'm a bit afraid of trying one. That plus $300 per hour.

 

The going rate and availability of choices is going to be dependent on your location.
If you are in a major city then your possible choices are going to be much greater than in the rural areas. Some of the more glamour "Divas" will want to charge upwards of $300 but there are several who are $200 or less. Regarding size...yes there are some who are packing quite a sausage but the majority are average size.
Many will charge a rate without a time limit...as long as you don't abuse their time and try to stay all day/night.

I still see one of the escorts that I saw back in the day. I've been seeing her off and on for several years now.
We used to meet at hotels and then one day she suggested I just come to her home. She's a Thai Ladyboy that moved to the states when she was younger so she speaks fluent English. All these years she's always been my bottom...and then I went to see her about a month ago and I asked her to top me. For a bottom...she fucked me really good! I was pleasantly surprised. She's $250 but she see's me at her home and she doesn't put a time limit on me.

DM me...and I can possibly give you some helpful info

 

Anyone wanting an experience with a transgender woman should look on Tinder and Grindr. Be sure to treat her with respect.

 

I had my first experience with a guy recently I'm 35 he was 25

 

How did it go? How did you connect?

 

ya it went well he was a guy in his 20's he was nerdy looking, He's a guy I met at department store actully. And he was around the clothing section.

 

Were looks important? Is it an attraction to men or more the sexual experience to s where I'm going.
If I had a chance I would probably find a younger person more attractive and some that I could not hook up with even if they were there for the taking. Generally I don't find men attractive bit I guess I would still find some traits more attractive if I'm going to have sex with him.
I haven't done it but it's the sexual act or experience that Is the lure.
He's gotta be clean decent and I guess in some way ok looking, I would sum myself up as average but I would not want to meet a grub, not if it it's for some sort of sexual activity.

 

i understand what u mean . its more for the experience rather than finding guys attractive.

 

Yes it's the physical pleasure or stimulation from experiencing same sex , sex to see how it feels. Experiencing someone inside of you or taking another man's cock in your hand to see how it feels before that first time you take it into your mouth and engage in giving head or pleasuring him. Feeling another man intimately for the primal sexual activity like some horny teenager having their first fuck purely for pleasure without a real emotional attachment but the urge to have sex.
Of course there is the taboo around doing it with another man when you appear to be the average heterosexual person to possibly all who know you. That first time of is this really happening, am I about to do this. Am I about to cross the line and be a cocksucker or am going to relax and experience a man penetrate me being the first time taking in the ass and doing gay sex acts.
That is of course that we find that guy in a quiet place with no strings attached and can drop our guard in a the privacy hoping for a discrete encounter, so long as we don't get cold feet and leave.
I did go to a store in Sydney. I found they had a cruising lounge, I asked about it. The clearly gay attendant explained, I said I'm straight he said I know. He said straight men do come their to get their dicks sucked and he did so in a way showing dissatisfaction. I feel he was inclined to think they are just in it for the BJ and maybe taking advantage of the gay guys doing it. Dunno really. I think some. Would be in it because it's a man they want giving the BJ and that's where it ends but the men doing it are going willingly.
Oh fuck we need a glory hole.

 

For me, there has to be some degree of attraction.
A straight guy looking to fulfill a fantasy of experiencing his first cock, in my opinion...needs to set aside the inner thoughts of it being "gay"...and concentrate on the idea of it being a new, unexplored area of sex. It was easy for me because I know I'm not gay...I'm straight...but I enjoy *sex* with a range of different people regardless of who they are or what they're packing in their underwear.

It's sex....just enjoy the pleasure. Nothing more, nothing less.

Attraction...
I'm highly attracted to women as a whole. It isn't just their pussy...it's their femininity. Their hair, their nails, smell, softness, etc.
Trans girls hate hearing that they're the best of both worlds, but in a bisexual way of thinking...it's true. Some people don't have access to an abundance of T-girls to choose from, but have a desire to experience cock...so there is no other choice than to see another guy. That's where I become more selective.

Speaking of which...I have a new boy toy that I recently acquired and I fucked him for the first time a few days ago. He's 25, Asian, around 5' 4" and maybe 135 pounds. I didn't find him, he found me on Grindr. I'm bisexual but he's definitely gay...and I can tell he wants to please me anyway that I want. He knows that I prefer smoothness (feminine)...over hairy (masculine)...and he shaved his entire body for me and didn't mind doing so. He's a submissive bottom that wants a top to fuck him on a regular basis and I get to suck a cock and fuck a soft, smooth ass whenever I want. So it's an ideal situation for me...considering he fits what I look for in a male partner.

 

Lucky you. He will do whatever you want believe me. It’s how I am with my girlfriend - her wish is my command. I live to satisfy her beautiful cock.

 

The first and only time was with a mtf trans girl. Messaged back and forth, figuring out what we were both looking for. Went to her house the next day on a Saturday.
I was real nervous, only ever been with women, and dated a girl that was into pegging. Got to her house and she didn’t skip a beat. Took my right downstairs and started blowing me.
She knew it was my first time and was really cool about everything. After she blew me for about 10 minutes, I had her sit on the bed and I started sucking her.
The few 3 or 4 minutes I was nervous and not sure if I liked it or not but once I got the rhythm down, I started to really enjoy myself. Spent the next 10 minutes getting as much of her 7 inches down my throat.
after that, she spun around, got on her hands and knees and started begging for me to fuck her. We fucked for about 30 minutes in all different positions. Doggy, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, standing, bent over the bed.
I was getting close to coming and told her, and she had me start stroking her while she was riding me. I somehow timed it perfectly so we both came at the same time. She kept riding while I came inside her, and I kept stroking her while she shot her come all over my chest and stomach.
Best sex I’ve ever had, and we’re got reconnected about a month ago after a year and we’re suppose to meet again soon.