We're staying off topic. My advice is to slap her tits with your dick. That's hot and not ridiculous at all.
Take it slowly . If you havnt seen each other naked already then that is probably a good place to start . There is a world of difference in seeing a woman naked, say in a porno clip than the real thing . It will be the same for her as well. It will also settle the nerves . Perhaps a saucy strip game could aid in adding to keeping you both relaxed followed by some cuddling after.
^ that reminds me, didn't an old version of hipforums used to have a feature where if a thread got a certain number of posts it was labeled a hot thread and its icon turned into flames?
I can't help you. My first time with her was probably her 20th time with a man. She showed me what she wanted, and I followed instructions quite well.
Treat her as you would a brand new car. Take it slow and easy at first and don't overdo it and stress it out by going balls to the wall the first time out. You don't hop in a new car and hit the gas and do 90 mph the first time out with it. Take it slow and easy the first time and increase your aggressiveness each time with more speed and acceleration until you feel that engine purr and telling you to give it all you got .
You gotta love that. A younger woman who's already experienced enough to show you how to go about it. Guides you in and grabs your ass and pulls you down to her faster and deeper your first time with her. Pretty disheartening isn't it?
She was great that night, and before our first week of sex was over,, we were a well-matched pair of fuckers.