i am innocent as well. don't plan on having sex for awhile though. don't wanna fuck up too bad and have babies when i'm in high school. thinking along the lines of 17/18... like my senior year. just in case. so i can finish school and not have to worry about babies! lol.
I'm still innocent, and it was most likely going to happen this weekend...but now, women's bodily fuctions have kind of wrecked that opportunity
15. the day my boyf n i got together is the day i lost it. we still together a year n 7 n half months later. he is older than me but never pressures me n is the most wonderful man on the planet.
I lost mine at 23 to my boyfriend - he was not a virgin, although he also lost his virginity in his early 20's (although he's since told me several time he wishes that he had still been a virgin when he met me). When we started getting serious, he tol me that he respected the fact that I was still a virgin and said that he would wait for me until I was ready, which he did. I think that is what made my 1st time so good for me - yes it was sore and all, but he was very gentle and considerate. We were (and still are) very much in love and we knew we were right for each other and so loosing my virginity to him also felt "right" in a lot of ways - in fact we are still together now and planning to marry next year.
The first time I had sex I was 17 and it sucked. You'd think it would be all perfect...I did all the right things...waited 'till I was in love, in a secure relationship [we didn't have sex until about 11 months in], wonderful guy etc etc. But I'd built it up in my mind so much that it was a dissapointment and didn't go for long at all. It wasn't very passionate or intense because I was all shy and scared. Phhhth.Sex should be passionate in the moment fucking...not a big deal. A lot of people say they regreat losing their virginity to someone they didn't care about that much or it wasn't special etc etc. I'm the opposite - it was too special and i cared TOO much. ragh...all those wasted oppurtunities in highschool when i couldve been fucking and didnt...blergh! dont build it up too much!!!
First actual Intercourse was barely 13, but I was sexualy active long before that. So I voted 13-14...
Old. Just a few weeks shy of my 40th birthday, actually. I can't say that I recommend waiting that long. I'm very grateful to the lovely woman that I shared that experience with, and I'm still with her.
do it once and it owns your soul! The earlier you do it the worse it is. Sex is like crack. Its very addictive. Do it once and your hoooked. have fun!
15 for me, loved her so had no regrets, though we are no longer together and i now hate her with a passion but thats another story lol.
I was 16 but had done oral at 15. The foreplay was good. This guy only wanted oral and I found out later that he was gay. Too bad he was a very nice guy.