I was 18, and I kind of wish I'd lost it to someone else. I wasn't deeply in love with the woman I lost it to, but I clearly cared about her more than she did about me. After our second date (and the second time we did it) she announced that she wouldn't be having sex with me again, that she'd just been turned on by the idea of taking a guy's virginity. Then, for a few weeks, she tried to keep me on as "just a friend," but mostly all she wanted to talk about was how beautiful her new boyfriend's penis was. It was pretty rank.
im 18 and still a virgin, i have a feeling i cood loose it soon as my g/f seems pretty keen for it but she's only 15, and weve only been together for 4 or 5 days. im holding out cos of her age. if i decided to wait till she was 16 that wood mean il be 19 when i loose my V. but i think it will come sooner im not desperate to loose it, but i wood never want to loose it on a one night stand or somethin id like to loose it too my current g/f cos i love her so so much
i was 9 and she was 13. never regretted it. i was a really early bloomer and never went through the "girls are yucky" stage. have always had a fascination and an appreciation of women for as long as i can remember.
HOLY SHIT! 9 !!!!! I had the opportunity to have sex at 13yo and it freaked the hell outta me so I've stayed a virgin. How on earth did you have the courage to do anything at that age????
like i said i was very advanced at a very early age. she is still quite the aggressive horndog to this day. i ended up having to build us a clubhouse of our own in the woods, because my friends didn't want me around their's. i was hanging with a girl, which was yucky and i was a sissy to them now,lmao. just gave me the opportunity to do it some more without any disturbances. i was raised from birth in a really honest, but not so open-minded, home. they thought they were spooking me into the priesthood. no kiddy names for body parts, always had a playboy subscripition on the coffee table, lots of how all those parts worked in very graphic details. i knew more about sex and how babies were made at 5 than most folks that have had their first child. had my first big crush around 4 on one of my mom's co-workers, damn she was and is still beautiful. had my first g/f in first grade, which obviously didn't work out. the only sort of negative affect i received from this experience was it set into play the idea that women bluntly let you know when they are interested in you. being raised around animals all my life just re-enforeced this, since the males tried to look pretty and the females chose the one they thought was the prettiest and could take care of them by demonstrating an ability to do so. this put me in the mind set to not approach and to be non-aggressive in the dating game, thinking that if i worked hard and was attractive, a female would come along someday. it didn't really put a damper on my love life until i reached my 30's. i tried for a while to overcome this, but still haven't gotten it together. i actually find the aggressiveness of men to be quite arrogant, disgusting and appauling, to me no means no. if i have to convince someone to date me, it means i need to look elsewhere. unlike today's male i won't play the "beg and chase" dating game that seems to be so popular. if he begs and chases he's a dog, most likely the annoying, leg-humping variety. to the virgins: don't be in a hurry, don't give in to outside pressure, follow your heart and let it happen when it feels right. love doesn't equal sex. it's just a cherry on your ice cream. and we've all eaten plenty of ice cream without a cherry on top. tasted just as good didn't it?
Everyone matures at different speeds and times. A good test is, if you're embarassed to buy condoms, you're probably too immature for sex. And you have to be ready to deal with whatever comes along -- pregnancy, STDs, the emotional connection between you and your partner, etc. If you're not ready to deal with something like that, you are definitely not ready for sex.
I was 12, and it was to my best friend. We are still best friends, and nothing really changed. Of course I wish I had waited, but if I had to lose it at that time I'm glad it was to him. Really, we didn't even know what we were doing... lol but it happened.
the year was 1982....i was 12 years old ..... i dident even know what a hard-on was.... she was 39 and my best friend's ma.... it started with her just sucking my dick...it felt good at the time and when i had to cum i dident know what was happning i thought i had to go pee she said to "pee" in her mouth so i did then she gave my $40 dollars and i went to the arcade....i spent all the cash so i went back to her house and and we started to mess around again this time she was naked and we had intercourse.... i still dident know what was happning all i knew was that when we was done she would give me money and i could go and play alot of video games at the arcade....... this continued 4 about a year till i started to realize i what was going on with my body and how i could use it to my advantage at the age of 14 i was getting about $100-$200 a week from her just 4 fucking her i thought it was the best thing in the world..... then she moved and i never saw my best friend again..... or his mom
i lost my virginity at 14 to my 16 y/o ex. i really regretted it though, and didnt have sex again until i turned 16 and fell in love. i guess im just an old-fashioned kind of guy, but i DO think people should wait until they are in love.
geez if it wasnt for me doubting u, id say that u were the wrong person in the right place at the right time. i sure would have knew wut was going on. good thing he moved cuz ur best friend wouldnt have been ur friend much longer (if this is true)
are you taking some serious drugs? i want some of whatever you're having and i live in bc so it must be stronger than we get here
How can a guy have sex at 9? You havnt even reached the stage in puberty where you get pubic hairs, let alone cum! It wouldnt have even been enjoyable.
Hi there... first off "Smiley420", if this isn't true, (which, duh, it obviously isn't) I feel really sad for you that you need to go on forums and construct such a not-so-elaborate lie. If it is true, well, simply put, I feel even sadder for you. My first time was when I was a few days shy of 18. My boyfriend was 17 at the time. We had been going out for almost a year and we are still together today and very much in love, been together for almost two and a half years now. What made our first time so good, (although he wasn't a virgin at the time) was the fact that we had.... so... much... love for each other, and also we had been together for so long spending every day together, and we just already knew what felt good for the other person, because we had so long to experiment with each other and truly get to know each other's bodies. Also, communication is so key!!! You NEED to be able to communicate with your partner about what feels good, what doesn't, and of course possible consequences of your actions and what you would do about them. (pregnancy, for instance. It's a pretty good idea to know where you both stand on the subject before you put yourselves at risk of getting pregnant. Even if you're using birth control there is ALWAYS a risk!) Also, on these boards I've heard a lot of people say things like "I lost it at..." or just a general attitude of "It's lost to me and I can never give it again" Let me tell you this: Virginity means shit. I mean, yeah, if you believe in waiting, that's fine. If you have religious or other reasons for waiting, that's perfectly alright. But remember both ladies and men: just because your virginity is gone it does not mean that you cannot give yourself again. You don't just "have" something once and then it's gone forever... if you make a mistake and lose your virginity early it DOES NOT make you impure, it does not make you broken, or anything like that!!! Regardless, your body is still just that--- YOUR BODY!!! Just because your virginity is gone, does not mean that you can't give that special gift to somebody else. Sex, or making love, is a physical and emotional act where you can give the gift of your body to your partner, for whenever you have sex! So girls, guys, just because your virginity is gone, it DOES NOT MEAN your body is suddenly unworthy of sharing with anybody else. You can still have sex, make love, and rock on!! Strawberry
