New guy here. Like apparently a lot of other guys at this site I like women and am not attracted to guys, but intrigued by the thought of sucking off a guy anonymously, like at a gloryhole. My question is for other guys who have done this, for the first time did they want a guy with a cock that looked a lot like theirs? Like in my case that would mean white, average size, cut, trimmed.
I'm still looking for my first experience. Maybe not at a Gloryhole, but I do have definite preferences. I feel that about 6 or 7 inches would good, and definitely cut. A clean circumcised cock is what I crave.
I'd say I was this way when I started sucking cock. The more dick I sucked, the more dick I wanted and wanted bigger dicks to suck. Back then I was finding other married guys to suck dick with who were larger than my 8" and was having a great time. Guys with 9-10" cocks whose wives wouldn't suck them provided me the time of my life. I love sucking on big cocks and really expanded my oral skills as I was repeatedly sucking several guys off each week.
With a glory hole, you get what you are given. In terms of preference, I don't care. I'll blow anything hard.
I thought I was the only one that felt that way about a cock I might suck. I have dreamed, fantasized and thought about sucking a cock many times, but like you it would have to be a specific cock. Like anything else, there are beautiful cocks and there are ugly cocks. I don't think I could bring myself to put a cock in my mouth that I thought was ugly. The type of cock that I would love to put in my mouth would be 5 to 7 inches fully erect, average to slender girth, circumcised, not heavily veined and with a nicely shaped head. Maybe this has to do with the fact that when I was younger I could suck my own penis and my penis is 7.5 inches fully erect, average girth, circumcised, not heavily veined and a very nicely shaped head.
Decades ago, I could self suck. Back then I was limber enough to get about half of my cock in my mouth. I love the feeling of my spirting cock, and swallowing my cum. I did it often, until my neighbor and I became SBs in HS. That went on for a couple of years, so I didn’t suck myself anymore. 40 years later, I find myself wanting to do it again with another guy. Often when I’m hard, I will look at my cock, And fantasize about sucking one, just like mine. Would never do a Gloryhole. Too risky. Maybe I’m too picky, but preferably I’d like a nice married bi Guy Who is in a sexless marriage who is likable, safe, want to share BJs, and a cock like mine. 6+ inches, average girth, cut, clean and shaved/trimmed. A Heavy comer Would be a plus +++. But I guess that is like looking for a needle in a haystack. My SB Was quite a bit thicker than I am, And I guess he was a heavy comer. I had no one to compare him to as he was my first…… As thick as he was when he came, I felt like I was going to choke or drown. Back then no one had ever heard of trimming or shaving. Now I need to find that needle in the haystack. Maybe someone will drop in my lap, Or him in mine.
I had my ideals, I still have them. 6 or 7 inches more or less, cut with a nice thick hot cock head. The first cock I sucked was a smooth cut 5 inches, the next was a small 2 inch with foreskin. The thing is, these were friendly guys. We were all lacking a sex life and we all got together and sucked each other and pulled off and helped each other enjoy getting our rocks off. Nothing gay, it was mutual relief. I hate categories. I would do it again in a flash. My wife knew and would know next time. No cheating here.
As I had only fantasized at first, I did want one that looked like mine because I enjoyed its size and shape. When the actual experience began, I just wanted his dick in my mouth and was not too concerned on how it matched up to my expectations. I enjoyed it so much that none of that was on my mind....my only focus was on him and then on swallowing as much as I could as he began to cum.
Same with my first time. I love big meaty cocks but his was a thin 5 inches, smooth and cut, the next was my cock sucking host, his was 2 inches tops, but I worked his cock as he had done mine. Still to take the first load of come yet.
I guess my first time I did want one that looked like mine, it’s what was familiar and I suppose there was comfort in that. It was enough of a stretch that I was actually going to suck a guy. Over time that became a lot less important and my focus shifter to a guy with a good attitude.