first time sleeping over.. advice needed

So ive been in a relationship with my boo going on 2 years now, yet we havent sleep a night together (we had sex). So we are finally decided, to rent a separate apartment for a day and stay there. I am nervous, Ive never slept in the same bed with anyone before, and many of my family members who know me say i moan in my sleep. Plus i have no idea what to bring with me in my bag. I don't know what to do. because i can cook so he thinks we should cook something at the apartment. What should i bring? what should i wear to look sexy? what should i cook?

any ideas to make this 24 hours the best ever for me n him?
I wanna blow his mind and other things........

 

frenting an apt for 1 day?....from where?....i'd be afraid of a hidden camera somewhere

that said
you should start by calming down.....you cant do shit about moaning in your sleep so you may as well forget that lil dificulty.....its not snoring so its acceptable in my books

and its not farting either....nothing worse than a snoring farting girlfriend

generally my gf's have shown up with an overnight bag containing a teddy...I prefer simple as opposed to costumish......

you might want to douche so he'll go down on you....other than that...relax and good luck

 

im wondering what will he hate? what do men just don't find attractive?

 

I don't think you can generalize about what people find attractive ... so why don't you ask him?

You could even make a game of going through your wardrobe with him, getting him to help you pick what you're going to pack.

Have fun!

 

I'm assuming it's one day and one night. So I'd say if you're going to cook, just plan out the meals for the day and bring whatever ingredients you need.

As for clothes just bring like two outfits and something comfy to sleep in. Always bring an extra pair of undies! Then your toothbrush, some toothpaste, and shampoo and soap for the bathroom. It's pretty simple really.

 

I'm assuming it's one day and one night. So I'd say if you're going to cook, just plan out the meals for the day and bring whatever ingredients you need.

As for clothes just bring like two outfits and something comfy to sleep in. Always bring an extra pair of undies! Then your toothbrush, some toothpaste, and shampoo and soap for the bathroom. It's pretty simple really.

 

Go to a supermarket / grocery store & find a few things you could use a s sex toys - cucumber etc

 

Focus on your comfort first. That way you can relax, which will help him relax by social osmosis (a thing). It's your first night together, it should be fun. I think that he will enjoy himself with you regardless.

but here's a list:
-toothbrush
-toothpaste
-soap
-oil
-toys
-stockings
-chocolate
-music player
-slippers
-pajamas (are always cute ;p)
-cash
-potatos
-sour cream
-spring onions
-bacon
-cream cheese
-eggs
-sugar
-butter
-graham cracker crust
-9inch springform pan

Don't:
-bother with excessive jewelery or your best clothes. Save those for a ddate night.
-fret
-Plan excessively

 

Personally I find old torn sweatpants and giant t-shirts unattractive. You don't have to go crazy. Just don't look like a slob.b

My wife makes all kind of noises in her sleep. I think it's cute. That's the nice thing about love!

 

I'm still struggling with the "rent an apartment for a day" thing. Do you guys actually date? I mean, you both get dressed up, he comes over at eight, picks you up in a freshly washed and maybe freshly detailed car, takes you out to dinner at a nice restaurant, he insists you order anything you want and insists on paying for everything, afterwards takes you to somewhere nice, like a cozy club where there's dancing, has a drink or two but DOESN'T become intoxicated, then delivers you back home safe and sound, walks you to the door hoping for a kiss goodnight and if you really like the guy, you might give him one? You know, normal interaction between men and women.

I mean, if you're going to have to cook, why not do it somewhere where you know where the pots and pans are? I'm sort of stumped by the "rental apartment" thing. Why not just go to his house to spend the night? Or why not have him over at your place to spend the night? If the relationship has progressed enough to warrant spending the night together (you already said the two of you had sex) then why not just do it at HOME where you LIVE? I don't get it.

 

Maybe they are young and live with parents? Sort of playing house with the rental?

 

ah christ....if it's this much of a mystery after 2 years.....I'd say do what's genuine and you both can finally get to know each other.