For the ladies, can you share your thoughts on how you felt after sharing your husband? whether you watched him or knew he was going out for sex. Were you nervous before and how did you feel afterwards?
The fantasy always turned me on. I was nervous that maybe it wouldnt in real life, but when he came home that first time smiling, well lets just say i was as happy as id been in my fantasies lol
You sound like my wife. We met a couple online with the intention of a with the intention of a possible, and we met them for drinks. Very attractive, slightly younger couple that we seem to hit it off with. my wife and I had agreed that there would be no sex that first night. As we’re going our separate ways, the other wife gave my wife a very hot kiss (This other wife was bi, and my wife was curious)! Walking back to our car, my wife seemed quite flustered. Unfortunately on the drive home, my wife said that she could not imagine sharing me with this other woman. I had no problems sharing my wife with the other husband. Well crap…… so we never swapped. we did have a few MFMs with a good friend of ours, but no other women.
For me I honestly had no idea how I would feel, I was a roller coaster of nerves. There was a bit of excitement going into the experience. After things started happening, I was a little shocked at how much it got me turned on seeing him with another woman. Kinda crazy, I still don't fully understand what was going on in my head, I just remember "living in the moment " at the time. Afterwards the excitement was still there but I also started feeling the stress of how this was going to change things between us..."is he going to look at me the same?", "Will he picture her?" OMG, did we just screw our relationship up? Anyways we understandably had a few things to work through and talk about but I feel things with us are stronger than ever now since we have shared all those "secret" things we feel and wonder about with each other. It's not easy but it's worth it. Sorry kinda got side-tracked on the subject.
I understand that feeling, it was there somewhere inside my head, but for us it was actually an FMF. And the thing that helped me keep a wall up against any negatives was my baby's eyes, the way that he kept that communication open with me the whole time. Like 'this is you and me baby'. Our first time 'sharing' was as unplanned as it could have been, at least consciously. It was my doing, so there was no 'knew he was going out for sex' because I was bringing it to him. From the first moment that the idea hit me I wanted it to happen. Nervous yes but that was such a tiny thing next to my anticipation. And then watching his face when he got off inside her (she had her face buried between my thighs) sent me over the fucking moon. I may have come close to breaking her neck squeezing my thighs together so hard. Lol. Not really but it could have been a close thing And then 2 days later (we were a 10-day vacation) he 'returned the favor' by setting me up with our first MFM. So that's the rest of how I felt after sharing my Baby Love with another woman for the first time.
Thanks for replying Lena, wow what a story! For us it was all a planned thing with another couple (friends of ours, first time for all of us) so yea I watched him, but then tables were turned when he watched me.Thats a whole other story, but anyway quite the experience that night with so many different feelings.
My spouse and I had a long talk about her inability to have sex anymore. Her medical issues prohibited it and my libido still soared. She had offered to set me up with a couple of her friends years before but being uneasy about that at the time I declined. In hindsight, regretfully so. But this time she was adamant I continued my sex life even though she was done. I ventured out and for the first few times she asked if I had had a good time. Again sensing her resolve I felt she was uneasy about her own feelings over me having sex with other women. I sensed she was probing to insure I was okay and I was still going to do my part in taking care of and staying with her. After a few trysts the insecurity waned and she no longer inquires. But she does ask occasionally how I'm doing in that department.
