Hi I am a bi-curious male who has a few queries. In preparation for my first time with a man I recently bought a dildo. I have no problen with the penetration however I have concerns as it will only enter me for about 2 to 3 inches. Is this normal? This would surely cause problems during my first "initiation". A couple of years ago I had my prostate removed. Would this be the cause of the problem? Your comments would be appreciated.
Why only 2-3"? Just be patient and slowly go deeper. I've had every inch of my dildo in me. It took a while and a lot of practice/lube, but the feeling of being stuffed full is amazing.
Prostate surgery should not cause a rear entry problem. You may have something else causing a restriction. Maybe check with a proctologist. Of course, you have to tell the doctor why you think your depth is too shallow.
Well, you see Doc...I just can't get really good deep penetration in there!...Why is that?...Great conversation with a doctor. He or she may not answer...Not a discussion I'd start with a professional.
Thank you so much. I have been patiently doing what you suggested and the other day I got full penetration and the feeling was AWESOME. Following this I haven't been able to get full penetration again (yet). I am feeling a little sore after several days of attempted penetration so I'm giving it a rest for a day or so.
I guess I have a cool doctor. I could totally tell him that if I thought there was a problem. Not that I ever have, but we've had personal talks.
