For the longest time, I've thought about other girls. In fact I remember the very first time I imagined myself with another girl. I was about 15, at home alone, in my bathroom with the shower running, looking at myself in the mirror, and imagining another body just like mine pressed up against myself, the same smooth skin, the same silky hair, the same soft breath... Well, yesterday night I had my first encounter with another woman. And I can say it was the greatest thing ever! I doubt I'll ever see that girl again, but I look forward to exploring this some more.
Hey, I was wondering what you guys did, and what it was like? Were you a little intoxicated? I am planning on having my first night with my girlfriend this week.. Nervous as hell!
Don't be nervous... Just be yourself and same goes to your girlfriend. If you're scared or feel uncomfortable with something, just make sure to tell her, but also make sure to point out that if you do get uncomfortable or anything like that, that doesn't necessarily mean that you don't want to do it with her. Situations like that can often be mistaken and misunderstood for the complete opposite, so please make sure you tell her how you feel and just take it easy (both of you)
Thank you so much MissHawk! The things you said were spot on and I hope she communicates too, thing is we have been attracted to each other for so long and in a way it’s unfortunate because it feels like such a build up! I feel like if I botch it up I will feel so inadequate that I will be too scared to try again, she a first timer too
Do you seriously just love posting porn videos everywhere on the forums...? Seriously, stay to the topic or don't bother posting... People need advice, not where to watch porn or what kind of porn videos to watch... Sheesh.
Dear Pumpkin... You're more than welcome ... That's the main reason why I came here joining on the forums after a break-up, to help other people as much as I can with all the experience I learnt from my mistakes and share the knowledge I've got And if you both truly love each other, then stop being so silly and worry so much hehe. Just take it easy both of you and tell each other what feels good and what doesnt and take it from there... First time doesn't have to be embarassing or necessarily "bad" as most people unfortunately refer it to. It could be both, if you chose to do it with somebody who you don't love (which thank god you're not hehe). So if she really loves you, things will go really smooth and both of you could make love with each other without worrying the slightest bit... FYI, little advice: Don't listen to Paul, he/she obviously likes to advice people to go watch porn and such, instead of taking experience / knowledge advices from others... lol
No. I don't get angry or upset that easily... I'm just sick and tired of seeing his/her posts to people who seeks real advice from people that are willing to help and share experience / knowledge with others, and advice other people to watch porn instead (to "learn")... -_-
