My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years now. For a while our sex life was on a downward slope since we saw each other every day. Recently, he got a new job as a trucker and I only see him every few weeks and our sex life has been amazing. He's definitely become better in tune with my kinks and what really gets me going. Yesterday, we decided that since neither one of us have experienced a 3some we would give it a shot. Now we are not doing this to save anything we are happy and content with where we are this purely out of curiosity. The 3some we plan to have is MFM and since he is on the road I've been doing all the research on what to expect and do's and don'ts. I've seen people say don't include friends and others say don't include strangers. Some say drink a little others say not to. And a bunch of other things. If you guys could give me any more tips and help clear up confusion that would be extremely helpful! Thanks in advance!
My husband doesn't want to use a friend, though. I wouldn't mind just because I feel like there would be less of an awkward moment.
This guy has been almost like a second husband to me. If he was not married he could move in with us!
Oh wow, that's crazy. Since this is our first time this is more of testing the waters for us. I'm just worried about picking a stranger
I wouldn’t pick up a stranger...but I would make a new “friend” for the purpose of the threesome. Find a guy online who’s interested (should be super hard...sarcasm) and let him know your rules and boundaries. Meet him a couple times for drinks or dinner so you can see what he’s like and the chemistry you have. If all goes well...Fuck him.
That's what I told my husband and he replied with "we don't need to date them" I want to be comfortable with who we get and make it comfortable as we can for our first time
Will this dude also be sticking his dick in your husband? If not, then you get the ultimate say in the matter.
No, just me. I'm pretty excited too. I get to be treated like a toy. My husband basically said he's off limits.
Find someone you are both comfortable with. My wife was against friends. This was several years ago so std was not a big deal. We never rushed into it, but had a few soft swing experiences. Girl talk led to her first experience. One night when she was out with her girlfriends, one talked about another lady who's husband, let her have sex with other men. We talked about an open relationship, and both agreed. By the way our situation, was much like yours. I worked away, and was gone all week. As the girls often talked, one of them told her about being with a guy, that rocked her world. So her friends let her know about, a guy. It still took her awhile to get up the courage. But she didn't regret it once she did.
