I'll go first - no. Missionary and I was 30. I wonder about position because I imagine teenagers would default to missionary partly because they may not know any other position but now and then you hear about a first time that was something else. I'd be surprised if anyone lost their virginity doggy style. Perhaps if the girl was submissive and let the guy have her any way he wanted but I can't see that making her feel loved and valued and thus willing to have sex for the first time.
HS GF. I was in love. So was she. We were both virgins. I pulled out at the last second. We went like that for weeks before she went to the clinic and got a prescription for the pill. Never used a condom with her. Her next BF got her pregnant because apparently he wasn’t quick enough on draw. Whew, could’ve been me! I was never a “player” (I only dated with the intent of a relationship. Got married early (just before 22nd birthday). She took care of birth control. I got the boys snipped after our 3rd child, so no need for condiments. But I was exposed to a needle stick at one of the places I worked at and had to go though the HEP-B vaccine so we chose to use them during the refining to be sure. That sucked. 1 shot, wait 30 days, 2nd shot, wait 6 months, third shot and a final lab test. Damn glad that’s over. I hate those things!
I don't think I'd be strong enough to pull out. The urge to fill her up would be too powerful. Maybe I'd be so happy to be fucking her at all that it wouldn't be so bad but damn that's impressive fortitude.
That’s all I ever had with my first girlfriend, condom on all the time. On top of her being on birth control. She was not ready to become pregnant so soon in life and I was not ready to be a dad yet That worked out fine but things relaxed after a while and we started doing it without
Not with my 2nd wife. No need to since I got snipped after my 2nd child from my first wife. I am 21 years with my 3rd and the only time we have had to use condoms was when I got my penis pierced to avoid cross contamination during the healing process. My wife didn’t seem to mind them since she didn’t have to get up and empty out.
