Just yesterday I got my very first butt plug. I have been married 10 years and maybe tried anal twice. It hurt too much both times. Anyhow, I opened it excitedly and wore it for 6 hours at work. What a way to start. I think about wearing it all the time now. Is a saying true? Once you do it, you never go back? Wondering why I never did this earlier! Can't wait to have sex with it in.
So I'm still loving it! I've only worn it once since my last post. I don't know why but I feel like I'm doing something bad and don't want husband to know I'm wearing it lol. Today I did for 6 hours at work but it started to hurt. It didn't hurt at the hole though, but further up. Maybe it was getting dry, even though I relubed every couple of hours. The only downfall is the smell on the toy. Even boiling doesn't make it go away. Any advanced tips?? It's a silicone bnaughty medium plug. Thanks in advance!
Because it feels good and makes me horny! it also gets me in the mood to try anal, seems it makes going in easier.
I see My girlfriend and I recently started having anal sex, we had trouble with making it work for a while and it seemed too painful, but I figured out an approach that works for us. Apparently it's all about finding the right formula for you to relax, and avoiding rushing it. First, we have just have sex normally like we always would to get in the mood, then I start eating her out while putting a finger in her ass, and then two fingers as she loosens up. After she has orgasmed with my fingers in her ass, she is ready to take the cock. You need to find a method that works for you, but it's a good sign that a buttplug feels good to you and makes you horny, since you already seem to associate anal with pleasure Good luck and enjoy!
Even sexier is if you want to pull it out and suck on it. An ex girlfriend used to do that, and during work I called her and told her that if she's thinking of me she should pull it out and suck on it in the bathroom. After she hung up she did that and orgasmed immediately.
By all means tell him. Next time you wear it to work text him and tell him what you are doing. He'll go crazy.