Hey guys, So I’ve been in an emotionally abusive relationship for a while, since my man pays for everything (rent, bills, food) he thinks he can talk to me how he wants, treat me how he wants and cheat... So long story short i need to move out & afford my own place... i signed up to be a Sugar Baby, and decided to text this man i met on site. But he wants to have threesome, which I’ve never done... I actually have never done anything like this before. I’ve had 2 partners, and the last relationship I’ve been In is 10 years in which i never cheated or wanted to. So I’m meeting the SD on Sunday, and the girl he picked is pretty hot. But i have no idea what to expect. It’s probably a long shot but does Anyone have any advice?
Yes I have some advice on both matters you have brought up. First is don't rely on a sugar daddy to make your life better. He's just wanting you for sex and paying for it by putting you in a temporary living arrangement. Oh, there are women who take an offer to be a SB and enjoy it but sooner than later it ends. He will have a wife, family, and home life to go to after he has had his fun. You will not. The best way for you to leave the relationship your in is to rely on family or friends for support including temporary housing until you can get on your feet. Leaving an abusive relationship is difficult but you have to stand on your own and not expect a sugar daddy to help. When you meet him Sunday don't be surprised that he has some kind of agreement or arrangement drawn up. You should expect compensation for doing this. Usually housing, partial covering of expenses such as food and clothing, even compensation for the sex he will expect you to supply. You will basically be his personal escort or prostitute and be expected to be available anytime he desires. You might enjoy a arrangement like this but enter it with an open mind and not as a way to leave your former relationship. That being said my second piece of advice is that a threesome can be a wonderful experience especially if you are open to interacting with both participants. I've had great times with 2 women at the same time. They all have been FMF style where the women concentrate on me and my pleasure and not with each other. Any way the proposed threesome becomes be it FMF or FFM I encourage you to experience this. Not at the expense of your freedom but because you want to. Decide on how you wish to interact with the other participants be it concentrating on the man or the woman or both. Having sex in any form is so much better if you want to instead of needing to. Needing to become involved in this threesome as a way out of a relationship casts a cloud over being able to fully immerse yourself in the encounter. It won't be as satisfying as it would be if you really want to explore sex with multiple partners.
I met a couple a few years back on the internet. They wanted a male to watch them have sex. I join them at a hotel and watch them for about 45 minutes. She asked me if I wanted to jerk off and I said why not. She said to me when you get close tell me. As I about to cum I let her know . She pulled me over to her and I came in her face and mouth. When I left they gave me $200 and asked if I were available next weekend. I said sure this time meeting at their house. We spent 3 hours of fucking the wife all different ways. My first mfm in many years.. no male to male touching only when we do her. I met this couple that whole summer. Sometimes she invited a girlfriend. I would fuck both of them but when the girlfriend was there the husband had to fuck just the girlfriend. The wife said she live watching other women fuck her husband. As well as he like seeing his wife get fucked by me
Do not do this. Any man willing to do it this way has no morals. Like BM said, where do you think this will go? How long do you think you can do this for? Time to change. Get yourself an education and stand on your own two feet. Go to a women's shelter and find some temporary (or permanent) subsidized housing. Even hotels will give you shelter to women who are escaping an abusive relationship. Where I live, you will NEVER be turned down for a government student loan b/c of bad or no credit, no matter your ability to pay it back. They will cover your living / childcare needs and school fees / costs. When you're standing on your own, you can have a threesome on YOUR terms.
