First sex after your divorce

I'd love to hear your stories about the first time you had sex after your divorce.
Mine was with my boss. I didn't even know he found me attractive.
Late one night in his office we did it on the floor
I was nervous , not because of the sex but because of the fact I had granny panties on and a faded bra.
he didn't mind.
It was the first time I had oral sex in 5 years it was electrifying

 

Years ago, after my divorce, I met my now wife. I was too much of a gentleman to make the first move. She had been a 7 year widow at a young age. Needless to say our first date was uneventful. The second and third date, she wore me out. By the 4th date she tied me to a coffee table and had her way with me. 21 years later the adventure continues. I’m a lucky man.

 

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get back to you on that

 

I got divorced at 32 and was immediately hit on by numerous ladies at work. I was a well paid senior manager of the right age for those mid twenties girls looking for a husband. Being back on the market, it was hard to turn down the offers of dinner, drinks and sex and I ended up having sex with a number of them. It helped me realise there was life after divorce.

And the sex was brilliant. New, fresh, innovative and exciting.

my only problem was an attractive married woman I declined to have sex with. She thought I was being noble and chivalrous and that attracted her even more. She would come into my office every evening to say goodbye and chase me around the desk trying to kiss me. And why didn’t you? I hear you ask.

Well, she told me that she had informed her family that we were in love, she was going to leave her husband and we were going to run off and get married. In other words, a psycho.

 

Whew, you dodged that bullet.

 

It got more bizarre. The chief exec called me in and said she had told him I was being uncooperative. He found that unusual as I got on with everyone and asked what could be done to make things better. I told him bluntly that she would only be happier if I fucked her and married her.

That left him speechless and he didn’t raise it again. I applied for a promotion in another region to get away.

 

Imagine if the shoe were on the other foot and you chased her around her desk. You'd be in jail by now..... Good escape.

 

Agree 100%

 

My ex's girlfriends couldn't wait to call me and ask for a date. They had been flirting with me for a few years so I fucked 'em all. Really pissed off the ex.

 

I was seeing a woman while going through my divorce. My lawyer told me to keep my dick in my pants until the ink on the judges order was dry. The anticipation was killing me! The first official date was 24 years ago. Best sex EVER..... twice that first night. Yeah we're still together, but those memories!

 

This was many years ago and I have long since been remarried. But when I was newly separated from my ex, I had a blind date with a woman I met online who lived across the country. She was also going through a divorce. We spent one night in a hotel, she gave me a blowjob but chickened out about fucking. More than two decades later, we wish each other happy birthday on Facebook.

 

It was a couple years after that’s when I got together with my fwb it was mind opening and mind blowing

 

My first sex after divorce did not happen for about a year. I was still taking care of two teen-aged kids at the time. Met a woman on-line, eventually had sex at her place, and it was not super memorable. On-line dates usually did not turn out as advertised.

I had bad luck with on-line dating, so I started dating based on connections made in real life. Met a dominant woman while out walking my dog. With her, sex became electric again. Everything would become electric. She called the shots, and that was a great experience. Time stopped completely when I was with her. Even a simple conversation or a glance became sexually charged.

Had a few experiences with men during that time period, also. Those were also very good-- would meet men while out camping, and would get each other off.

It was such a period of freedom and exploration. I no longer felt like I was owned by anyone.

 

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After 25 years together, I got divorced, It wasn't long before I was approached by an old flame from when we were teens. We were crazy for each other way back when, but too young and going different directions. We had fumbled through sex once or twice back then, but no matter how slow I took it, she was very nervous and clenched up like a clam and I couldn't get her to relax and enjoy it and it always bothered me that we really didn't ever get to share that experience properly.

Well in our mid forties we got another shot at it. Both being much wiser to the world we shared dinners and drinks laughs and time to catch up, and when the night arrived we were both so excited it was like two kids in the candy store. We explored every inch of each other and made love for three days straight. It was amazing and we spent the next 7 years together and had sex almost every day we were together. Sexually we were so compatible it blew my mind, but in the end we learned we were still very different in the way we looked at life, raised children, saw our futures unfolding, and decided to go our separate ways.

Finding myself single again, I met a beautiful young lady who has had as many or more partners than I have had in life and brought a whole new set of ideas to the table (well sometimes the table, other times the bedroom lol) I have had an amazing, at times eye opening, life with her for the past few years . She said from day one that she knows what she wants and when she has found it and we were in bed and exploring new tricks together from about the second date. She has been open to experimenting, playing, voyeurism, and dabbled in exhibitionism. We have loved the excitement of each other and the opportunities to explore different fantasies and a couple realities, when circumstance permit. We love each other dearly and our life together.

But each time the first opportunity to share yourself with someone new is the excitement of the unknown, the adrenaline rush, the amazing feeling of the release of built up tension, of raging hormones that all seem to come to a peek and release.... that just makes a moment that you discover "Damn I am crazy about this person" or.... "Wow that was pretty mediocre - can't see me putting up with that for any length of time". (and I have had a few of those too and that's Ok - sometimes you both just need to Fuck and get it out of your system and have no intention of "happily ever after")
But when you just click it's certainly a nice feeling to share. I am just glad I have found it.

 

it was with my ex's little sister the same day the divorce was finalized. we were still friends and she came over to see how I was doing. she started flirting and leaned in for a kiss. we used to flirt with each other when I was married to her sister but nothing ever came of it but since I was no longer married I thought to hell with it and bent her over the kitchen table and took out all my sexual frustration and anger on her pussy. we fucked hard and fast like pornstars for about 15 minutes untill we both climaxed and collapsed on the floor. she then kissed me, got dressed and left.... later that day I got an angry text from my ex slagging me off for fucking her sister.

 

to be honest no she wasn't. but she was kinkier and more enthusiastic

 

well she was up for anything and after that first encounter we started hooking up for "fun" without anyone knowing. she was even up for letting a couple of my work mates having a crack at her.

 

like I said, she was up for anything. don't really wanna go into detail on here because I'm not sure what your allowed to post.